Stress!!

Hey thought i’d have a rant and rave!
I’ve just told my friend im having my ba in july and asked her to come with me ect and she has totally put me down about the whole thing and now i feel so upset and thinking am i doing the right thing?? Confusing but i want it so bad and i know i shouldnt really listen to other people but it has really put other thoughts into my mind!!!

She just keeps going on about “what ifs?” and complications…. Help!!!!!

my friend was like that 2 funny tho she wants hers doing ? jealousy can create nasty people after my 15 yr friendship she slept with my fella now their both gone . and im single with big breast and loving it x x x

Wht the hell!! hope your okay clare she sounds like a right one! Ive booked it for 23rd july only 9weeks away!!! Feeling really excited but really nervous too xx

Must o both been feelin a bit down hey ha leave em 2 it . anyway 9 week will fly by babe promise x how big you going ? it ain’t going to matter what i say your still going to feel the nerves but honest to god it ain’t that bad its over an done before ya know it .

Some girls act really funny when they find out what ur doing, I kept mine quite secret and only told close friends and family, most were supportive but it seemed the ones who wanted big boobs or had big boobs didn’t like it all at, think they feel like your going to steal the limelight with ur new boobs but don’t let it get u down, real friends will be supportive and understanding of what will make u happy!just do what u feel is the best thing to do and if that’s having new boobies then go for it best thing I ever did!xxxx

hi doll,

I know exactly what you mean i have chosen to only tell my close family and one friend cos people react so differently they don’t seem to understand why your doing it. my chest size has got me down since I was 16 being the only girl in my group of friends who didnt have a bust, i didn’t go swimming cos i was embarrassed how I would look in a swimsuit and i didn’t go on girls holidays cos of it either. You need to stop listening to her and put yourself first. if you are like me you will have done your research and know about the pro’s and cons, look at how many girls have done it and how its changed their lives, don’t let her put you down. She may be a little bit worried about you and thats understandable but you need someone who is going to support you all the way.

I am dreading telling my boyfriends parents cos his mother is so opinionated (retired teacher so you can imagine) and she is always one for asking questions and weighing out the pro’s and cons, ive just decided not to listen to anyone cos i know its what i want. Believe me hun its what you want and I am sure you are making the right decision but it is hard when people constantly but a downer on it.

keep your chin up hun, all the girls on here are here to support you everyone knows how you feel and i am in the exact same position, it is a big decision but just think of how happy you are going to be once its over, its going to change your life and you will be happy.

x x x

Hey girls thank you so much for all your comments its made me feel alot better about the situation now! im currently a 32a and have been so unhappy since i was about 15! And i now 20 im going to a 32 c i want to look natural so im having 260cc’s

Ive told a few mates and some are really happy because they know how i feel about it, and a few are being funny oh well like you lot say there just jealous!

I just want these 9weeks to hurry now!! Ive already started to buy pjs and huddys hehe xxx

DID HER MOTHER NEVER TELL HER JEALOUSEY GETS U KNOW WHERE
GO FOR IT XXXX

Thank youu!! This forum has been my best friend for the past month!! It has really helped

xxxx

ive been pretty lucky, all the friends that really matter to me have been super supportive about it, but afew other ppl have been negative, i dont care, im happier now!! xxx

My best friend has been really good about it, so been quite lucky with her, she even said she wants to have a poke after lol!! Haven’t told my other friends that i’m not so close to, so just hoping they won’t notice. Told my sister today and she was pretty good about it, just being a protective older sister really. People have a image in their heads that you are going to look like Victoria Beckham, she was like, well just be prepared that people are going to know that they are fake, if you wear a low top and things. But i’ve seen so many photos and they just aren’t like that. Then she was saying if you ever have to meet anyone else..meaning boyfriend what if they don’t like that your fake, but its like if they like me then they shouldn’t be bothered about it. And anyway i’m sure blokes aren’t going to complain if i have big boobs lol!!

I’m doing it for me, and will cross the bridge of telling everyone else when they are done if i have to, i’m so looking forward to it, don’t want the excitement to go with people putting a downer on it. There will always be some people that will be funny about it, but you only live once, if it will make you happy just do it :o) xxx

[Author]

Posts