stupid question

…. is the £400 deposit i paid taken off my total or is that extra?

also. .. someone help me on how to tell my mam haha xx

Its taken off the total hun!x

brilliant thank u pinkbutterfly started wondering if id have more to pay xxx

I texted mine, haha it meant she didn’t get put on the spot and have to say anything though. Don’t think she was surprised coz i always told her I’d do it… but she keeps worrying. xx

They best way is to say ur thinkin about a boobjob and see what the reaction is xx

lol I’m 31 this year and I still aint telling her until afters it’s a done job! x

My nan went wild when i said i wanted botox! but completely fine about a boobjob how mad is that lol xx

My nan went wild when i said i wanted botox! but completely fine about a boobjob how mad is that lol xx

lol thunderkiss is was thinking bout texting mine too. i need to tell her soon as my op is in 6wks.

haha hush thats well funny ur nan kicked off with botox lol thats much less of a op lol. xx

shotts. .. i thought bout that but then i think she might kick off even more lol xx

thanks girls ur all brill!!

sad that im 22 and cant tell my mam haha xx

I haven’t told mine yet either! I have until june though Good luck x

Mine is tomorrow and not told my Mum… I emailled her a few weeks ago and said I was thinking about it and she told me she disapproved and I didn’t need it etc and to wait… I knew she wouldn’t be supportive so thought I may see if she notices!! I’m sure she will x Good luck

I think the best bet is to get it over and done with that way she has time to calm down (Thats if she even gets upset) And get use to the idear :-] xx

belle. how u planning on telling her lol?xx

louise.. aw thats not good. have u got someone going with u?? xx

hush.. im gonna have to tell her soon hope she understands. she hasnt ever seen my boobs think if she does kick off i will show her how little i actually have and ask her if she would feel unhappy. also i feel like a man cant wear nicr clothes and tops or dresses xxx

Aw I’m sure she’ll understand but I know how you feel.

I’m gonna buy some wine haha dutch courage and probs do it when she’s watching tv. I’ll wait until it’s dark because I just know I’ll get embarrassed and go beetroot! lol I think she’ll worry a little at first but will then be excited. I won’t tell her til may though because she has a big mouth and I don’t want everyone knowing until after.

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Moms can suprise you its easyer if she was larger boobs! u can inform her she couid never truely understand xx Im sure it will be fine take her Some flowers to soften her lol x

Ive never been able to wear what i want iver :C I really cant wait to wear a corset! and go in a underwear shop without feelin unwomanly! xx

me too hush im sicka having to buy gel bras etc…

my mam aint got big boobs but she has boobs. i have none at all. ill let u all know how it goes lol

thats if i survive lol xxx

Ooh hush a corset! Yes please lol can’t haha are you guys up north? xx

Good luck hun :-] xx

Good luck hun :-] xx I feckin hate my gel bras lol

Belle im in the west midlands hun :-] I was lookin at the ann summers website the beautiful things we will be able to wear :-] xx

My bf is coming and booked the nxt day off work! I have warned him of what to expect and my friends are coming over aswell when he’s working! Eakkkk!

I am so looking forward to binning my gel bras and getting a new collection and looking like a woman xx

Yeh, that’s what I’m excited about Louise – finnally looking and feeling like a women! Instead of a little girl.. xxx

when i was with my ex i took my lightbuld out so he couidnt see lol and ive always had a complex! people think its a vain to have cosmetic surgery but u cant put a price on Confidents and self respect xx

here here!! xx

hi bchj dont laugh im 46 and not telling my mum the nagging would go on and on i wear heavy gel bras for years so when the swelling goes down im sure there’ll be little difference my sister had hers done 6 years ago and mum still doesnt know. she is older than your mum would be but if i had a daughter in her twenties and this really bothered her i would support her once she didnt end up like katie price that is good luck x

I’m 36 (!!!) and was scared to tell my Mam!!! I was even more scared to tell my Dad. I was just going to get it done and tell them afterwards. But I’m so close to them and tell them everything. I first mentioned it years ago and they really didn’t like the idea. But now, because I’ve lost weight recently and its really affected my boobs, they’ve been so supportive. In fact they shocked me to the core when they offered to help pay for it. My Dad seems to have lost all his prudishness – he said ‘well if you’re going to go for it you may as well do a Jordan!’ I swear, someone has replaced him with Hugh Hefner.

Just be honest and tell your Mam how unhappy it’s making you. For me, it had got to the point where I didn’t like to take my top off in front of my boyfriend. Its not good for your relationship when you feel like that. Life is too short to put up with something you’re unhappy about. If its possible to change something in your life to make yourself happier then why not?

I think Mam’s are just scared of what could go wrong and if you’re going to look stupid. So I took my Mam along with me when I had my first consultation and it really put her mind at ease. I think it helped her understand its a very common easy procedure these days.

Good luck! x

Nower days moms shouid be pleased we’re havein boobjobs instead of smokein crack lol xx

I texted my mum to tell her I wanted to get my boobs done. From previous conversations I knew she didnt approve, and didnt really wanna talk about further as I thought she would try to persuade me otherwise. HOWEVER!! she replied to m text almost immediately with a phone call and shockingly she was far more understandable that I ever imagined she would be. I started crying (more out of joy that she understood how I felt). Now she’s paying 2k towards it for me and I have to pay the rest. So sometimes it’s best to just bite our tongues and do what we have to. (Reaction might be better than we initially anticipated) Good Luck babe.x

hi lisam i also lost 3 stone 2 years ago so thats when i relised this has to be done my husband is great i first brought it up 2 years ago and of course he was all for it ha but now we have gone through all the conultation and everything he is being great and understands how ive been feeling he loves the fact i’ll have my confidents back i love getting dressed up and feeling sexy only to go back home and take my gel bra the sexy feeling goes out the window, your dad sounds fab lost mine a few years back my mums a bit old fashioned so not expecting her to change. when is your op date mines 23 march at highgate london with me adamo x

hi bchj and lisam just added u as friends keep me up dated so excited this forem is great as u guys are going through the same and are the only ones that truely understands xxx

awww girls thank u this.has all made me feel so much better. think im gonna tell her tonight and invite her to my pre op next monday. my pc said she would fully explain things to her and help me lol.im gonna show her what i got then i hope she will understand!!

hush that made me laugh i know not as if we are doing drugs and dangerous stuff.

tam i know how u felt my mam is so like that too shes dead against cosmetic surgey, hopefully she.l will be like urs.

ritam lisa… i would totally support my daughter too. just hope my mam fully supports me.xxxx

accepted hun xxx

bchj – if your mam doesn’t support you, we’re all here on this forum for you. x

Rita – my date is 15 March at Cheshire with Aurakzai. Can’t come soon enough! Good luck with yours, we’ll compare at a later date! x

awww thank u hun im 23rd march xx

some of u girls said u text ur mam. . . what did u put in the text i feel so embarrased to tell her x

Sell it to her by saying how bad you feel about yourself and ask her if she felt like you would she do it and if theres something shes unhappy with play that card… My mum is unhappy with her weight but not a big big women so I said to her if you were really massive, would you have lipo.. she answered yes if I had the guts for surgery, so that was when I gave it to her that I was having my boobs done and shes supported me since but shes scared about me having surgery, bless her. Dad doesn’t know though… thats a different one all together, ha!! x

My mum has known for years that ive been unhappy about myself and so just told her when i was going for a consultation and shes been so supportive even having a laugh with me trying on my rice boobs herself not that she needs them lol!! my step dad knows and keeps trying to make convo with me to ask how ive got on at my consultations, im like erm fine! (not summat i wanna talk about with him haha!) my real dad not even gunna tell him- he would hit the roof he hates anything fake i only see him about once a year at xmas time so cudnt give a shite what he thinks anyway! x

bchj…My darling!! Please don’t be afraid or embarrassed. You have every right to do what you are doing hunny bun. Remember my predicament, just remind her that things could be a hell of a lot worse. Trust me once you’ve told her no matter what the outcome you will have a huge weight off your shoulders, and it’ll be worth it. Honesty is the best policy…if she kicks off just say “I’m not going to apologise because I am not doing anything wrong. My body, my money, my choice. I am going to do it no matter what but I wanted to tell you so you could support me not make everything more difficult. I am an adult and I want you to know that I have made an informed decision not an irrational one. I love you and I wanted you to know and not do it behind your back because I have respect for you. Please come to my pre op appointment and people with experience and medical knowledge will help to explain the process.” x x I hope it goes/went ok sexy lady x x x

bchj…My darling!! Please don’t be afraid or embarrassed. You have every right to do what you are doing hunny bun. Remember my predicament, just remind her that things could be a hell of a lot worse. Trust me once you’ve told her no matter what the outcome you will have a huge weight off your shoulders, and it’ll be worth it. Honesty is the best policy…if she kicks off just say “I’m not going to apologise because I am not doing anything wrong. My body, my money, my choice. I am going to do it no matter what but I wanted to tell you so you could support me not make everything more difficult. I am an adult and I want you to know that I have made an informed decision not an irrational one. I love you and I wanted you to know and not do it behind your back because I have respect for you. Please come to my pre op appointment and people with experience and medical knowledge will help to explain the process.” x x I hope it goes/went ok sexy lady x x x

awww fawny thank u. i also feel a lot of guilt as she has paid for me and my bf to go on holiday this year and.it was mega expensive cos i canr afford.to go yet i can afford to finance boobs!! ill let u know how i get on xx

i know there has been loads of response to this post but i would just like to say that my mum has been brilliant. i have been going on about a BA for 10 years, as i have never had any boobs. My mum on the other had was blessed with big knockers and so was my gran!! dont know what happen to me. My mum is a 36 FF and has always looked fab in clothes.

so when i told her i was going for yet another consult in Jan (been to a few over the yearss) she said “just book the bloody boob job because if i have to listen to you going on about it for another 10 years i crack up”. She hs been so supportive and helpful in choosing the right size, she want to buy me my first big bra lol! shes a star.

xx

hi carmel thats great your mums sounds great sounds like she’ll spoil u lucky u xxx

will add u hope thats ok x

yes please add me thanks ritam x

Aw Carmel your mum sounds great. Did you tell her yet bchj? x

no belle lol im a right whimp. ginna text her tomorrow when im at work… gonna tell her to keep monday night free for my pre op.. i hope shes ok with me as we are having a big family holiday this yr. when and how u planning on telling ur mam?? u think shell be ok xx

Hey sweetie pie, did you text her today? Hope you’re ok x x x

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