Supportive partners?

Was just wondering how everyone else’s partners feel/felt about you having boobs done? My other half confuses the hell out of me lol. He didn’t want me to do it.. Then he did. He came along to the initial consultation and seemed really positive. He chose not to take a day off work to be with me on the day of the op (which I admit would have been difficult.. But not impossible!) he’s been working hard and he has been really unusually tired and snappy with me the past few days.

This is probably not the place to go into great detail but we had words thisevening and he made a really sarky comment about my boobs. I’m not sure what’s got into him:-/

It might be nothing.. I just wondered if anyone else’s bf/hubbies/partners have been weird too?!

when i first said about wanting mine done my husband was really against it (fiance at the time of wanting it done) he even said i may not marry u if u get them done but i knew he didnt mean it. some days he was supportive n ok about it n others he was like whatever! i am now 5 days post op n he lovessss them . Dont worry hun im sure ur partner will come round its just men for u xx chin up hun

Hey Hun he is most prob scared and dnt want to tell u, a little diff but my family was totally against me having mine done espesh wen they Hurd the news about the pips ! He will come around soon xxx

im really lucky to say my fiance is really supportive, got my ba 22may and i thinkhe’s more excited then me xx

I’m very lucky to have the complete support of my partner he’s been with me every step of the way he booked 10days off work to look after me & my boys too I guess there’s a lot of things that play on men’s minds though if money is tight then they will see it as something you don’t need then there’s the recovery time men will see it as they will have to look after themselves kids ect lol & I guess the biggest one of all is what if something goes wrong ?? Not a lot of men will actually say these things but I’m sure your husband will come round once he sees how much happier you are in yourself give it a bit of time Hun xx dee

My partner has always been openly supportive of my decision to have my boobs done – he even surprised me with the rest of the money I needed to get them done. He came with me on the day and took some time off work to help me with the kids afterwards. However since my op he’s been really distant and snappy – I’m thinking he somehow resents me for getting them done? It’s weird…. It’s been really hard work ever since my op xx

he could be worried, but if hes being rude & sayin mean things id guess its an insecurity of his own thats botherin him? ask him what his problem is!! i had to reassure my bf that it was for ME and only ME..for some strange reason he seemed to think i was having it done for men in general?!?!

mine was weird about it too he said he didnt agree with it & would leave me if i had it done, thats usually down 2 ther own insecurities, they dont want us looking even BETTER! obviously i went through with it anyway, he drove me all the way 2 the hospital then went to his college, but apart from that ther was no support whatsoever, i was really ill on a drip in the hospital bed & he was pacing the room telling me to “hurry the f**k up”-he hadnt even been ther all day he’d been ther an hour, he came ther from college!! then all during my recovery if i asked him to pass me something or asked a favour that i physically couldnt do or even if i said “ouchhh” all i got was “uve done this urself its self inflicted so i have no sympathy”

but now he loves em & is boob obsessed.

MEN.

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to have them, but he respects my choice and is coming with me to every appointment. So he is supportive in one way:)

I perfectly do understand why any partner would be against it. I’ve read so many articles of boob jobs gone wrong:/ When you think of it there are some serious health risks that just might happen to us… Sometimes I’m thinking I’m a mad woman doing this, but then again I love the look of big boobs too much:) I may be a little bit too obsessed with vanity, but that’s just me. I want them! End of discussion;)

my ex was all for it as mine are nowhere near a handful. i think his reply was something along the lines of “bigger boobs? well y would i complain” lol. there may of also been a slightly sexual comment at some point that im not gonna write but u can probably all guess that he liked the idea of.

that was as far as support went from him, i never went to any appointments til we split up but i dont think he would of come anyway

funny though….now im booked in for them he’s interested again and suddenly remembered its his bday a week b4 my op so he thinks he should get first squeeze……men!

first squeeze is defo mine tho, screw anyone else i want to play with them lol

My fella is extremely supportive, he paid for them as a wedding present, and has come along the whole way with me, and I couldn’t have done it without him.

He finally admitted the night before that he was very worried about the op, and he let it show but he has literally done everything he can to help me and our boy while I recovered, and would now be my bra if we both didn’t work so much!

He does get a tad jealous when I go out now, I can see it in his eyes, but it’s nothing more then it’s boobs I have on show now, not padding! Xx

My fella is extremely supportive, he paid for them as a wedding present, and has come along the whole way with me, and I couldn’t have done it without him.

He finally admitted the night before that he was very worried about the op, and he let it show but he has literally done everything he can to help me and our boy while I recovered, and would now be my bra if we both didn’t work so much!

He does get a tad jealous when I go out now, I can see it in his eyes, but it’s nothing more then it’s boobs I have on show now, not padding! Xx

aww thats so nice! what an amazing wedding present x

I know, I can’t wait to choose my dress now and have boobs in it instead of nothing I’m off dress shopping today! Xx

My boob job was quite random now I think haha ! I ha always wanted a boob Job as Im quite tall and curvy and felt I needed to look in proportion !I was literally at my flat and my mum come over and I was sorting out my holiday clothes and trying on my bikinis as u do haha ! And I had unlovely river island one and remember saying if I had bloody boobs to fill this it would look good ! My mum tried it on as she has naturally DD perky boobs ! Lucky cow and said seeee I SO need a boob Job so my mum was like have one then ..then we looked on the MYA website as my friend has use them and booked a consultation ! Went for it still thinking I wouldn’t have a BA unless I got accepted for the finance and only if it was 0% I was going to go for it .. Disnt get my hopes up as I’m only 20 always get refused credit cards etc ! I couldn’t believe it when my PC said accepted honestly nearly fell of the chair haha ! And booked my surgery on the day ! I was in shock ! Text my bf and was lurk shut I’m having a boob job wooppeeee haha met my surgeon mr Russo loved him felt totally at ease and had my surgery jan 12th ! Bf has been fab ! Come and visitors me that evening after op as had an overnight stay and took my mum home and come and got me the next day ! My mum was the BEST and so was my bf ! My mum and dad gave me my deposit for Xmas and then on Xmas day said there pay my finance 2 absolute babes ! I suppose I’ve been really lucky !!! Sorry for ye essay hahah ..but men will be men ! Xxx

my boyfriend never really seemed that interested. he asked once wat size i was gunna be but that was it. he didnt come with me on the day and wen i asked him to come over my house to look aftrr me for 4 days.. he left a day early saying he was home sick. hes not the best boyfriend in the world as he always puts himaelf firat. but i love him so much and am soo scared to leave him. id do anythin for him but it doesnt feel like he would for me. men really are strange beings.. they confuse the hell oit of me too! just wish i had had the support of him being there for me xx

my boyfriend never really seemed that interested. he asked once wat size i was gunna be but that was it. he didnt come with me on the day and wen i asked him to come over my house to look aftrr me for 4 days.. he left a day early saying he was home sick. hes not the best boyfriend in the world as he always puts himaelf firat. but i love him so much and am soo scared to leave him. id do anythin for him but it doesnt feel like he would for me. men really are strange beings.. they confuse the hell oit of me too! just wish i had had the support of him being there for me xx

Haven’t taken my boyfriends opinion into account! It’s my body and if he’s not happy with me making myself happy then he clearly isn’t worth being with! I’m not sure if he’s ok with it or not, he has come with me for one appointment and has booked time off for after so I suppose that’s good haha! I’ll just have to make sure to make him happy after op but wearing the sexy underwear I’ve always wanted to for him I’m more worried about telling my dad lol xx

My boyfriend has been very supportive. He says he wouldnt have it done if he were me but he respects my decision and can see why I hate them as they are. He has come along to my appointments and will be taking time off for my op and a few days after to help me out as I am also having an uplift so I will be quite sore. He has also completely paid for my op so I couldnt ask for better!!

My husband has been really supportive of me too as he know how unhappy I am with my boobs at the moment. I would say the only thing that worries him is the g.a. X

I hate reading threads about this, I think it’s terrible that a man who is ‘supposed’ to love and care for his girl can be so cold, uncaring and unsupportive. If the reason he’s being that way is because he’s worried about attention you may get off other men, then he needs a reality check. It’s unbelievable. Ayshababy, what your bf did was horrible, I dont no how you didn’t tell him to f**k off for good. Girls, just remember the reasons your doing this….FOR YOURSELVES!

I was really lucky, my hubby not only paid for my surgery, he also had a month off work and spent the whole time with me, looking after me, never went out with his friends or anything. Stayed in every weekend with me. I didn’t need to lift a finger. If I shouted him, he even used to come upstairs and help me turn the tap on and off in the bathroom coz I was so restricted. He’d help me pull my trousers up and down and lift me up and down off the sofa. Get up with me in the night and help me to the toilet. He literally did everything for the first 7 days. He’s been an amazing xx

gina84: I think men have all right not wanting this as it has serious health risks if they truly care about you. I completely understand them, but being pure mean about it with you girlfriend is quite another thing. That’s not okay no matter what the case would be!!

Yes I agree totally surferosa. If its a general concern about health then fair enough. But when I read about girls who tell their man that they want it done, and they just become really off with them for no reason, and threatening to leave them or not marry them as gem0307’s fiancé did at the time, it winds me up. If he has a general health worry about her getting it done, he should just say that instead of threatening to leave her. Its the same as girls who’ve just had there surgery and are upset that their men are being unsupportive, unhelpful and disinterested, never visiting or helping them, It makes me so angry. Grrrr! Men eh?! Strange creatures at times lol xx

Yeah, that’s not a good sign at all! I don’t think anyone who truly loves you or even genuinely care for you would say/do anything like that:/ Red flags up girls!!

ginag84 im with you on this, if my fella hadnt been supportive i would have left him, and he wouldnt be walking back into my new confident life, but like you, he did everything for me, even if i was a nasty snarly cow, he just got on with it knowing i was doing this to look and feel better in myself and my wedding dress xx

Who said men aren’t weird beings?!

I had been wanting one for years after I had my daughter 5 years ago but my husband always said no. I let him get away with it because I wasn’t ready and needed to do my research and so I did.

On new years day this year I said I was doing it, he flared up talked about the risks etc, I had done my research so of course I had this covered. Tbh he hadnt done any research of his own so i knew it was insecurity coupled with unfounded noise . I also knew he was worried about the procedure, but hey I’ve had a child, what could be riskier than that?! If he was that worried he could sit and pray!

He moaned about how he loved me just the way I was but I told him it wasn’t for him, it was for me. He even moaned about attention I was already getting and about how I’d get more, I made him see that was an invalid point really as that made no difference to me, he already had me. He wasn’t entirely supportive and still isn’t, even though he came along with me to see Dr Russo and said he was!! But I don’t care, I like to do things on my own anyway.

He is still trying to talk me out of it, even now that ive paid, but I know he’ll come round because I haven’t given him a choice, and whether he likes it or not it is my body.

So @fiblonde If he hasnt already come round, im sure he will xx

hi tommygirl, sounds like hes just paranoid! my ex always wanted me to have bigger boobs and was always staring at girls with big boobs! and now that im not with him anymore ive decided now that im 18 and have the money im going ahead with the breast aug for me – not him! getting a 380cc from 36a – mind if i add you?xx

Np, I’ve added you x

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