telling the family…

so a few weeks ago the day i was about to book my ba i told my mum about it she was so supportive and was really happy for me, which was a surprise as id been panicking for months about telling her. anyway her and my stepdad who i live with have both taken time off work to help me out and take me to my op etc.

last night i text my dad about my op, i dont see him much and tbh when i went the other day and was sat watching cash in the attic with him i couldnt really find the right time to tell him haha if i hadnt of text him id of just turned up with new boobs and think he’d of been unimpressed with that. he replied saying ‘if thats wot i really want hes happy for me’, which was nice but then went on to say that my stepmum ‘thinks ill regret it’ which kinda makes me think shes not happy about it, maybe im just grumpy that the text woke me up lol but its annoyed me abit and i need to vent it somewhere.

a couple of years ago i spent £3200 on some work on my teeth which consisted of 4 veneers on the front (originally had crooked front teeth) and after my whole time at highschool and college with my horrible teeth i finally smiled again and havent stopped, altho it cost me alot of money it was the best thing ive ever done!!!

and this is how i see my boob job, im a 32a so pretty much got nothing and in the past its bothered me that much that id be stressing on nights out bout people noticing my lack of boobage and not wanting to go out, altho no1 prob even cared haha its not so much an issue atm as im alot happier within my self now and iv put on weight since them days which was a big issue for me, but id still like some boobs lol!!! and put it this way its not happening naturally. i want them for myself, so i can feel sexy and confident. the only way i may regret it is if something seriously go wrong in the operation which i guess is a concern for every1 but other than that ill have boobs.

sorry girls but i just needed to rant and theres no1 at home lol :p

im 32a, 8.6 and 5’7 and im having 410s with mr traynor on 19th april xxx

U will love mr t he is a legend!! I think im in looooveee haha…. No but seriously hes a fab surgeon ive had no bruising at all he must be very gentle.with the boobies xx

Is there a chance that your stepmum could be jealous? I wouldn’t worry about her though, the main people you need on your side are on your side and have stepped in to support you straight away. You don’t live with your stepmum, she won’t know you as well as your mum, dad and stepdad so I really would just take it with a pinch of salt. You will not know yourself once you’ve had your boob job. You will love it, it’s the best thing I have ever done and lots of people didn’t understand why I was having it done but have already said they can see the difference it’s made to me and I’m only 6 days post op. x

rant away doll we all have family members that see things in a different way i have thought about this for years and went ahead with op last wednesday it was my decision but even at my age i was worried about family and friends reactions but at the end of the day it is something personal to you good luck hun x

ive told my mum and step dad and to me there the most important people to me, they have been really understanding! i dont live with my dad or step mum so dont see them much probs about once a year at xmas lol! so not even gunna tell them coz i kno my dad wouldnt approve anyway! x

shes got huge boobies i dnt think theyll be an jealousy there from her haha maybe shes just abit worried or expecting them to look like jordans lol

i cant see a reason why i would regret it, boobs or no boobs???? not a hard choice haha lol im soooooooo excited… wish it would go abit quicker 3 weeks tomoz :p

thanks girls xxxxx

Leanne, alot of the jealousy I have encountered comes from those with big natural boobs. I don’t know why, perhaps its because theirs aren’t as pert as they’d like. Either way, it’s been the well endowed women who have been the bitchiest to me when I’ve told them. x

I have only told my mum & she’s not keen on the idea(although I think she’s jealous as she wants an uplift!), but am dreading telling my inlaws as we are getting it on finance & they are soooo money concious! My husband has just recieved some inheritance too(which I would never dream of using for breast enlargement) so I know they are going to think we are using that money! Absolutely dreading it, I know it’s going to cause an uproar, but ultimately it’s my decision & it’s going to make me alot happier.

I say, ignore what your stepmum says, if it makes you happy thats whats important. Good luck xxx

Hi Leanne im getting mine done on 19th too! In highgate with mr chantrasak! I told my mum and she went CRAZY! I’m 32 and what scared me most was telling her! Lol! She started going in about how some people are disfigured and I should be grateful I’m not, she told me I’m already beautiful, I’ve got 2 little boys and she said what would happen to them if something happened to me etc etc…….. Not nice but at the end if the day, as a mum myself, I know it’s all because she loves me and doesnt want me to put myself at risk of something bad happening for something that she sees as unnecessary. I just had to say that I wasn’t going to argue with her about it, I’m a big girl and have asked myself a million ‘is it worth it’ and ‘what if’ questions (as I’m sure we all do before making the decision to go ahead). Would be nice to have her support but at the end if the day this is a personal thing and not everyone is going to understand. The frustrating thing is is that I know once it’s all done and gone well she will love them! Xxx

Hi Leanne,

I felt like a child telling my Mum yesterday that I was going for a BA. I’m 35 with 2 children!!! She was really happy for me and is being really supportive though. I’ve decided not to tell anyone else. Mainly because there are always certain issues of jealousy. Its human nature to look on the negative side of things, sadly friends and family will opt for this reaction without realising they’re hurting your feelings. You have to remind yourself that this is your decision and nobody elses. If it makes you happy then balls to what other people think! x x x

Hi Leanne, are you having overs? I’m having 410 overs from a 32a/aa in the summer.

I know what you mean about being too nervous to tell the family, I still haven’t done it yet. I hate it when summer comes because I’m too embarrassed to wear vest tops and tshirts, I just want to wear baggy jumpers to cover up. Next summer will be different, can’t wait x

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