thinking about having surgery – very nervous about the idea – any advice please?

Hi!

I’ve been thinking about getting breast surgery forever but lately I’ve lost weight and my breasts are now even smaller, nowhere near as full as they were. I’m being told that I’m being stupid by wanting surgery by friends/family/boyfriend but I would just love it! Just scared about the op….

Any advice?

If you look through the forum at previous post,some of the members have shared their stories,with us,for me it was the best thing I ever did in my life,I only wish I had been in a position to do it years ago,life is too short,xxx

I understand how u feel. I’m due to have my BA 25 nov and I’m very nervous. after having 3 kids (12,4,5 months) I’ve practically got nothing. when i told my friends they all tried to talk me out of if but i remembered one thing:

life isn’t a dress rehearsal, u only get one chance so think it’s your life, live it to the max

I think there’s this very negative stigma attached to plastic/cosmetic surgery. It’s only when you bite the bullet and do it that you realise it’s nothing to be worried/frightened over. Having had a BA myself, I would 100% tell you to do the same. It was on my mind for years and it never fully went away, and I think it’s probs the same with you. As the girls have said, you only get one life. x

Thanks for the replies – feel better already!! I know 2 girls who have gone through MYA and love it – I think that’s what has put me off the most – not being able to talk openly about it and not knowing where to start looking – company wise etc. It’s just such a lot of money!! I’m 26 and I wish I’d done it a few years ago – I’m worried having children down the line will affect them in a bad way – I guess I can talk about that at a consultation.

The idea of having bigger breasts is SO exciting!! The idea of the scar isn’t great but I keep thinking that the other benefits will outweigh that. I do want to try and lose more weight in the future but I know that my breasts will be the first place I lost it from – makes me want the surgery even more!

i have wanted to have big boobs since i was younger when i had my children they got bigger after breastfeeding they shrunk a lot now they look like used teabags the pymrid type lool. Now is the time in my life when i can sort of afford to have em done booked and paid for but had to take a loan out so ill be paying back the next 4 years. However i did get a car as well and new ugg boots lool also new boobs so now its time for me I know what a lot of people think about having plastic surgery. Ihave done this for myself and cant wait to feel like a woman!!!!!!! so i would say you do what youve got to do xxxxx

Have wanted to have boobs for so long I never really thought about the surgery itself, it was always more a dream than a reality until I got a couple of payouts this year, I booked as soon as I could and never even really thought about the surgery itself at all, it was what I had to do to get my body how I wanted it, it a shame I’ve let other parts of it slip in the meantime! I love my new shape and haven’t yet had kids, I will cross that bridge when I come to it! I wish I’d been able to do this a lot sooner. The op was nothing to worry about at all, it’s the first op I’ve ever had and wasn’t nervous about it at all, nothing to worry about x

DO IT DO IT DO IT!!!

Heyy. I am 11 days post op now. I absolutely hated my boobs, and then after having my son, i hated them even more. They were really getting me down, and seing as I was only 17 when I had my son, and I was left with horrible tiny boobs, I knew I wanted to get them done! I am 19 now and my bf kindly offered to pay for them! As most of the girls on here know, I was sooo terrified and nervous about having the op, especially about having the GA. On the day I was really really scared, and I am not kidding, it was so easy, there was nothing to worry about at all! I cant believe how worried I was for nothing! Even though I am only 11 days post op, I really love my boobs, it was one of the best things I have ever done! I say dooo it! You only live once xx

Hiya hun!

First of all, do please ignore negative advice/opinions of others!

There is such a ‘stigma# surrounded by people saying they want a boob job and a pre misconception were all gonna look like glamour models.

You’re obviouly unhappy with what you curently have and want to do something about it. And if people love and want you happy they should respect and support your decision and give you the chance to explain before they shoot the idea down.

I too have wanted this op for 10 years, am now 30, they aint getiing any bigger and thought ‘sod it’, fed up of having a barely there man chest. I’m due to have the op now in 9 days. I have had ups and downs during my booking and waiting for this up, which is natural, it’s a big decision and the unknown when you wake up.

A good surgeon will be able to to answer any questions and put not only your mind at ease but those of others!

But remember, if you do go ahead and do this, do it for yourself and balls to what people think, because no matter what we all do in life, there’s always someone there to judge you!

Good luck xxxx

A lot of what has been said I can totally relate to, I’m worried about the GA having never had an op before…but it’s not a massive concern, just fear of the unknown!

I was talking to a friend tonight and she said one thing that made me feel a bit – that a lady where she works had surgery and she is known as ‘the lady who had the boob job’ when people can’t remember her name!! She asked if I wanted to be that person….which clearly I don’t!

The money is the major thing holding me back, I’m thinking that there’s never going to be a good time to spend £4k or whatever it will be, and that if I just do it I’ll pay the money back quicker than I’d save up if I waited – if that makes sense!

For those who have had BA – how long is the scar? I imagine it to be a couple of inches long?

With regards to GA, this will be my 3rd, when you’re wheeled down for one they put the thing in your hand and before you know it you’re waking up! I must admit I feel a little spaced out for a couple of days after but that’s great as it helps you sleep, which is what you need after any op.

As for the friend, well, who needs enemies with friends like that??? unless you’re going extremely massive, people may not even notice, and if they do, let them presume, it’s not people’s business to know and it’s not for them to judge either, please stop thinking abot other people’s opinions, this isn’t a ‘seedy op’ it’s not at all, it’s something that can help your body confidence no end!

As for the money, there’s many finance options and well it’s money well spent!

Whether you decide to have the surgery or not, go see a coordinator and surgeon, it’s free afterall xxx

Yes, you are totally right!! I’m worrying too much about other people!

I’m going to book in and see what they say

Good girl!!! at the end of the day, it’s only a consultation, won’t cause any harma and will answer all your questions xxx

I told people before my op, I wasn’t really bothered about how other people saw me, I spent so many years caring about other peoples opinions it ruled my life for too long. I figured word would get out anyway, so I’d rather it was common knowledge than have people questioning it behind my back. Everyone has been really supportive and so far I’ve had no negative comments, and if I do well I shall just put it down to jealousy or ignorance. One or two comments will not detract from how good I feel when I look in the mirror and see my fab new body reflecting back at me!!!

Hey im nearly 40 and worried what people might think of me having one in November and i decided this is what I want for my 40th in december but then like several others have said life is too short and you need to do what makes you happy at the end of the day! Im very nervous but also excited at the same time so think everyone has the same feelings beforehand. You go girl and enjoy them boobies xxxxxx

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