Too much red tape.

I have decided that its too hard to be who I am meant to be so I’m throwing in the towel now and fight against my innerself.

From doctors to social issues it’s just not worth trying to explain why I want to change the body I own so I’m probably going to throw all my things out and give usable items to charity.

There are huge hurdles to get over and I don’t think I’m strong enough and even though I’m not close to my family, I can’t put them through this.

I totally understand if anyone wishes to remove me from thier list as I am now displaying my updated male profile pic which I took today.

Thanks so so much to all the lovely people I have spoke to over the weeks who have helped me out with so more issues than just surgery. I have met some real good friends on here that I wish to stay in touch with.

Thanks MYA for having this forum. Without it I’d never have spoken to so many nice people.

Good luck to everyone going through surgery or recovering.

Mwah xxxxx

Danni please don’t give up you are such a lovely person and you deserve to be happy. I can’t imagin how hard it must be for you but from the short time I’ve known and spoke to you I think your strong enough to do it. Its not going to be an easy journey by any means but its going to be worth it. we are all here to support you when your feeling down and to share moments with you when your feeling great. You can get over the hurdles just think what the outcome will be when you have. If its what you really want you should fight for it and not fight against yourself. Its not something you chose to feel its who are are and I hope your family will understand that and I hope you have friends who will be there for you throughout. Whatever you decide to do we’ll be here for you when you need us xxxx

aww babe, you do deserve to be happy, and you can be strong enough, dont give up on what you should be, ok its not going to be easy you know that but it will be worth it in the end, as reg says we are here for you, no matter what…. and the kettles on any time….xx

If you’ve made friends on her its cos they like u for u! There’s hope for everyone so pls dnt give up or ile hv 2 sing christina auglerias beautiful song at ur bedroom window til u cheer up!!!

You’re beautiful no matter what, and I will most certainly not be deleting you, I think you’ve made a very hard and brave decision and I understand and support that. Besides, you’ve already seen my pics!!!

PS I wish I could volunteer to take some of those fab outfits off your hands but not with this curvy little booty I have!

Chin up, there’s a reason for everything in this life x x

we r here for a good time danni not a long time….do whatever will make YOU happy, it obviously took you a longgg time to decide what you want to do so please dont decide on a whim not to do it anymore, surely thats not the answer..maybe wait untill next year and after a few months you’ll feel strong again to persue this xxx

Danni this was always going to be the worst part! They just want you to prove that you’re sure. And Yes it is obvious that you were sure because you put so much at stake to take the steps you already have. Youve also been thru some scary stuff lately and you are vulnerable – You just need to wait a little longer til they can adapt your body to suit the woman you are. In a few years you won’t have to prove anything because you will be accepted as the beautiful woman you are because there will be nothing to say otherwise. If your family love you they will accept it. Give them a chance. Give yourself a chance to be your best self and we will all be here for you rain or shine xxxx xxxx

This post made me so sad Danni. Ive not spoken to you, but I wish we could all be accepted for who we are inside and out. You deserve happiness and I hope your family come to realise this.

Hugs

Xxx

It’s heartbreaking that u feel so strongly about becoming this beautiful woman yet feel because of this country’s red tape u can’t be. I understand why they want to make sure and surely if u explain like u have to us on here they will see its what u want xx don’t give up Dannii xxx

Don’t give up danni,we are all behind you on this,massive hugs,xxx

Hi Danni. I havent had the chance to become your friend, unfortunatly. It made me so sad to read your post. Please do not give in to the insecurities and small mindedness of others. ( Excuse the spellings bloody big words for me) I have in some ways through my life had to deal with peoples judgments and predudices from strangers and family membere because im overwight. I know what your going through is so much more than anything I can imagine. Not every judges people. I except each individual as I find them. You sound such a wonderfull person. If I knew you I would be proud to say you were my friend. Big huggs love. Your a very special person. Hold your head up and say this is me. Like me for who I am as a human being. People make my blood boil. Why can they just except us for us. Sorry I went on. xxxxxx

Danni….if you give in…they win!

pick urself up dust urself down and fight back…if u really want something it’s worth the fight…come on hun put ur glad rags back on xxxxxx

Lisalu71 is right danni. Come on! All the girls are giving u sound advice! We can’t all be wrong can we? Hugs xx

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