totally off topic but by god i am Pi$$ed off!!!!!!!!

boyfriend wants to spend xmas with his housemate rather than me!! like he did last year! and then expects me to come swanning round with my son when hes had his ‘special day’ with his housemate!!

Really bloody annoyed! we’ve been together 2 years now and i just feel like he puts his mate before me, does his friend not have his own bloody family, and how selfish of his mate as well!

Anyway my bf sees nothing wrong with this which has resulted in a full blown argument from my part and him slamming the phone down on me. SO ANNOYED

thats bang out he should want to spend it with u not his mates im sure ur more important id be pissed off to do use not live together xx

Two words “sad b@st@rd”. xxx

He works away from monday to friday in London, and we live up north, he literally lives the next street to me, so effectively he rents his whole house out to his mate while he stays with me at the weekend xxx

p.s new year is for adults crimbo is for kids!!

My ex did this one year and then 2 months later booked a holiday to Cancun convenientlt during Spring Break even though he’d promised we would go away.

Note the 2nd word in the 1st paragraph…..Ex!

He wasn’t worth it xx

ha ha im bloody seething i feel like im spitting venom tonight! and hes said ive kicked off for no reason, my son is 4 years old and i want a special xmas and was hoping for just the 3 of us.

He said to me , il ring you in ten minutes when youve calmed down, but i said it doesnt matter if you ring me in ten mins, an hour, 2 days im still gonna be angry. its xmas for gods sake

meant to be with the ones you love?? arent you???

Exactly hun, he’s being selfish, stand your ground and give him an ultimatum, to man up or do one! xx

he defo should want to spend xmas with u and ur lil boy not his mates and ye maybe new year with his mates xx

Hes making me feel like its me being selfish but how is it? im his girlfriend and ive got my little boy to think about not to mention that my op is on january 9th so probably going to be our last little family day together for a while sad times!

Thanks for your replies ladies, feeling rubbish

he might change his mind closer to xmas id be pissed off if i was in ur situation and my fela would rather have it with his mates xx

I m totally with you on this one! Why on earth wd he not want to be w you at Christmas ? We should all want to be with our loved ones. I dont think you are being unreasonable Xxx

Christmas is all about family and children so he really should be with you. He can spend time with his mate the rest of the year.

If his friend is single and no family/parents why don’t you invite him to yours and spend it as an extended family?

OMG …MENNNNNNNNNN!!!! my ex would do the same thing all the time. I swear there brain functions in an other universe. You are not being unreasonable at all hun. Have you read ‘men are from mars..women from venus’ !!so true xxx

Ask him if there’s something going on with him and his mate! Thats seriously Some deep bond to choose him over you at Christmas!!!!!! Xxx

Aww your poor little boy! My ex didnt spend our 3 xmas’s together, he spent it with his parents. My parents live abroad too. It fucked me off every year. But to do it to spend time with his mates? Id go crazy!!! The wanker!! It’s obviously just a big piss up wi the lads isn’t it xxx

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