two little things

How can i tell my mam? My mam didnt like me getting a tattoo….. Im 22 have lived in my own house which.i bought.with my bf for over 1 yr, and im still really close to my mam, however i do not know how to tell her….. Sad i know…

Secondly… How far in advance of surgery is ur pre op usually?

Heelllppp meeee

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hey hun, i knew my mum wouldnt mind but still felt a bit embarassed telling her. my opp was b4 xmas so when she asked me what i wanted for xmas my reply was ‘a boob job’ haha. sadly with xmas being over i dont know how u could go about it!!!

my pre opp was 2 weeks b4 my opp x

Thanks sara hun. Its really hard. She said my tattoo was self harm lol i know… But now she likes it. I think i should just tell her in a joke way then see what she says. Im the only one in my family flat as a pancake as u will see in my pre and post op pics when i get them. Im not scarded to tell her if u know what i mean im more embarrased and dont know how to tell her. Plus i dont want anyone knowing im only getting them for me.not the world to know… So hopefully she can see that xxxx

i also get on with my mum and she understood and didnt question me at all. if ur totally flat and its what u want im sure she will be fine. it is a hard thing to bring up tho. good luck x

I’m sure your mum will be fine about it bchj. All mums want is for their children to be happy so just explain to her why you want to have it done and the difference you think it will make to how you feel about yourself. Good luck!! My pre op is next week and my op is on 10th Feb xxx

I lost my parents when I was younger, and being very close to my dad’s sister, I told her over the new year… I said was that there is no easy way of telling you this but I’m having breast augmentation in January. I went on to say that I wanted surgery to correct what I percieve as abmormalities (tuburous breasts, large nipples and one breast being bigger than the other). I also said I’d thought long and hard about it for years and now I’ve finally made my mind up…and that it will make me feel more feminine and happy. My auntie isn’t happy about it but respects my decision…my uncle on the other hand said ‘you don’t need those plastic boobs’!! The thing is, there are lots of people in this world who mock breast implants etc but at the end of the day, it’s your decision, it’s your body and you have to do what will make you feel happy. Good luck lovely xxxx

Sara thanx again hunni.we ever u live in newcastle u may hear my mams scream hahah…xxxx

tiara- thanx love im hoping she will understand. Im totally flat dont think u will believe me when i say i just have nipples. But i ave. Might have a nice big vodka and tell her haha. Ah right so my opps 23rd.march an pre op wont be till march?? Cool. Let us know how ur op goes good luck xxxx

My pre-ops gna b on thee 14th of Jan, Then Surgery on 25th

It’s all steam ahead for me THIS month LOL! Got the vet 2moz to get ma cat a jag, Im studying EVERYDAY til the 14th for at least 4 hours a day,Ive gotta take my little cat to get SPEYED on the day b4 my exams Ive got an Exam on the 11th Jan and 14th Jan then after my 14th Jan exam I gotta go see the nurse for my pre-op, Then the dreaded SMEAR test on the 17th coz Im newly 20 (im shitting it MORE about this damn smear test than my BA!!!) A nice week to do nothing then SURGERY on the 25th CRAZYYYYY

full steam ahead**

Boredum will NOT be a problem…..

Hey bchj, i was speaking about ths on sofem with another lady. I have told my mum and shes absolutely fine with it. I showed her my boobs when i went down over xmas and she went…”ah. ok i understand.” haha. The thing is is that I live with my boyfriend and his family. we are both saving to go to australia in september but using my student loan for this and other savings. Anyway, I haven’t told the mother in law. No idea how. Dunno how she would react and I dont want her to be uncomfortable with it because I’m living in her house. i dont want to seem disrespectful. We are both really close I can usually tell her anything, but this is so hard! I feel you on the vodka…might be gin for me though! lotsa love hunny x x

I know how you feel! I’m so embarrassed to tell my mum too. Going to try and do it this weekend.x

Michelle- so so sorry to hear that hunni. …i know what u mean bout pkastic boobs it because of the media and people getting boobs like jordan for business purposes. I know my mam aint gonna like it but i hope she.understands my decision

Im sure they will all come round eventually bet ur sooo excited Xxxxxxxx

Fawn – my mother in law will understand as her other daughter.in law has them. However she makes a joke about being fake and that where as i want my boobs for me and for me too look like a woman. Im seriously thinking bout showing my mam what i have, as from being 13 if worn padded bras. Then i had a slight eating.proplem which made me.loose all my breast tissue. I really do just have nips its i think showing my mam my true un padded in filleted boobs might help, did it help u do u think? If i drink too much vodka ill end up going “” ma im getting tits.cos.i look.like a gadgy”” which nay not go down well lolol… Keep in touch babe lotsa loveeee Xxxxxxxxxx

belle- let me know how it goes babe. Im nightshift this weeknd so wont be visitig me ma, will av to see.her.next.week. Pm me and let me know how it goes and how u tell her.xxxxxx

oh sweety pie, i know just how awful a feeling it is! Im getting them done for me as well, the only people that understand are my mum and my best friend. I think it will be best if you show your mum and show her why you’re unhappy. I’m not flat but so empty!! I’ve been pregnant twice and lost both babies at the 3 month mark so my boobs inflated and deflated pretty rapidly, plus i lost loadsa weight because of the stress and hey presto! teabags!!Maybe the vodka isn’t the best idea haha, text her on your way over and tell her that you need to tell her something, then she’ll be prepared for something and it wont come out of the blue!!

The other day my boyfriend was like “i can only think of one reason why you want them” i asked him what that might be (this is the one and only time he attempted to even remotely discuss it with me) he said and I quote “It must be cos of Bex” I must explain that “Bex” is his ex girlfriend who measures at a FF. I was fuming!! Not once have I thought bout her in all this, i wanted them before i met him.

Anyway my point being that I dont think anyone will fully understand unless they’re going through it. We just have to explain as best as possible. As for my mother in law…I just dont know what she’s gonna say, I think she may have seen some MYA documents in my bag when she went to get my car keys this morning but she hasnt said anything. to be honest I think I will go with the gin route…i must be drunk for this haha x x lotsa love girlies x

Firstly im really sorry to hear bout the babies.must be the worst thing ever.

Secondly- as if u would get ur boobs done to keep up with ur bfs ex!! Gosh thats odd… I hope u slapped him lol.

So what if she has realllllll ff all the more to get saggy least ul stay nice and pert hehe.

I cant wait for my boobs im sooo flat!! Like paracetemol on an ironing board.

Whens ur op again hun?

Im gonna tell my mam soon, i dont mind if she dont wan me to get it done.long as she dont be nasty which i doubt she will be…

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