un- Supportive Freinds / Family

i dont think you have your consultations at the hospital, dont quote me on that thought lol. i paid 3750 for an over night stay and a private car hired by MYA there and back, i live in newcastle and travelling to manchester so i think ive got a good deal there x

Butterfly,

Your story was amusing, I must say! My dad would be the same, does not notice anything but that is a good thing!

I have been thinking of BA for a while, I have the finance for it {have been saving for a house deposit} but am so scared and plus the time I would have to take off really put me off.

I would appreciate post photos of yours if you did not mind. My email address: lkristoficova@hotmail.co.uk

Thanks!

its crazy. My mum wasnt happy when i told her but when she saw them when i came home after the op she was pleased that they didnt look fake at all and that they werent too big. She more than happy to talk about things with me now. but i still wont be tellin anybody else as so far not anyone has noticed!! i dont regret it one little bit and its 100% worth every penny xx

isnt it silly how parents and other ppl think that a boob job makes you look like a barbie?????? even b4 you get it done??? i dont think people realise how natural a boob job looks”” cos a lot of ppl dont even know ive got mine done ! there so natural! ppl just see glamour models with them, and dont realise theres many women out there with them!

you should sit your mum & dad down at your computor and show them some b & after pics! just type it into google so they can see all the different look a boob job can make!! and then they,ll understand ! XX

Lousise i was the same again i didnt tell my mum about the first coseltation untill after i had been and then she was really cross with me she still doesnt want me to get it done but she is coming round to it now, the fist few days after my first conceltation she sat me down and told me she really didnt want me to get it done and that i would be fake and look like a barbie, and why would a want to change what she gave me! it was so difficult so tell her that i would still get it done no matter what she says haha. My dada hasnt spoken to me about it he thinks im goin to become a glammor model after, you have to just ignore what they say people are going to say some really awful things but they are only jelous becasue you will look georgeous after!! xx

Ahh Butterfly!! That is actually the funniest thing i have heard all day!! Your dad, such a bloke!!! LOL!! Are you pleased with them? I hope you are!! I am a 32b and i hate it!!! I have got my op on 3rd feb hopefully!! xx

Hey hunni with regards to unsupportive friends/family etc I have the same prob. I’ve been a 34a all my life and it upset me so much I wanted to cry everytime I looked in the mirror. I’m a trainee doctor and I jus knew that noone would support me on my decision to have my boobs done as “I should no better” “there’s more important things in life” blah blah blah so at first I decided jus to not tell anyone. When I booked my BA I told my mum. She was really upset at first and I could tell she wanted to cry but I jus took my top off and was like “would you be happy like this”?? The shock tactic seemed to work and she supported me since. I explained I had sorted everythin financially and wasn’t askin for money or anythin. I gave her all the info to read thru and once she understood everythin she seemed fine. I had my BA on sunday. I didn’t tell my dad and so far he hasn’t even noticed!! So I think I’ve got away with it!!xx

my email is sianandabbie@hotmail.co.uk xxxx

ahhh cool whats you e-mail ill e-mail you instead =0]

i live in Hemel Hempstead but work in MK =0] xxx

Yeah i live in milton keynes!!! Where do you live? im seeing the surgeon on 7th jan, having the op on the 3rd feb xxx

I know i probably am haha

when did you say you were getting yours done sian??

MK !! you must be near me ? milton keynes is that ? I work there =0]

xxx

Honestly babe i think you are worrying about nothing, the scar will hardly be visible!! I have a c section with one of my babies and the scar was huge but now its hardly visible, and that was done by some shitty NHS doc in MK hospital!! Not some top plastic surgeon! Also, if you rub bio oil on the scar it heals it quicker and reduces the redness so its almost invisible! xx

I’m not too sure we will see on tuesday ! i like the sound of the belly button one but aparently is really painful after as they have to separate the skin from the muscle all the way up to the breast.

I’m just scared of scarring im quite pale so doubt it would show up much anyway but dont wanna have the same feeling that i have now about the size later about the scar ? xxx

No you have your op and consultations at different places. Im paying 3350 for mine as a day case. xx

I’ve got one post on already so apologies for the second don’t know how to edit once typed and this is different!

All my family are minimum DD even my little sister! in 21 and a 32b, I’ve spoke to my boyfirend of 2 n half years about it and at first he was really against it but he is slowly coming round now we have spoken about it properly but my mum who is an EE doesnt know why i want to and think im being stupid and so are 2 of my closest friends one and 30 EE and the other a 32F.

Has anyone else had this problem ?

What should i say to them?

I’m having my first consultation a week tomorrow once I’ve been how should i bring it up with my mum as she was so against it before??

Thanks Love Louise xxx

I went to the London Clinic and am having the op done at Highgate. MYA make a small cut under the breast and with a decent surgeon you cant really see it once its healed. I wouldn’t go in through the nipple as there is the risk of loss of sensation. I think most places just go in under the breast?! I have had 2 children and want another one but not for a few years. I cant live any longer with my breasts how they are so thats why i decided to have them done now and not wait for a few years. I have wanted them done for so long!! The only thing holding me back was my money, but im pleased to say my loan got agreed today so its all go now!!! xxx

**15 mins from my house its perfect!!

does anyone know if the places u have your consultations at you will have your op at ?

xxx

haha i didnt know that ! from what i’ve seen MYA seem to be the best and now myleen klass said she got hers done with MYA and i love hers! look so natural but on the “ask the expert” bit it says prices are from

i would just ignore her, she will just be jealous that you got yours done before her, maybe recommend her to MYA and you will get

my family is really small anyway but we are all meeting for xmas so think ill bring it up then hopefully will be in happy mood as family time!!

the other concern for me i know i should care but is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend. everything that anybody does she sees as a competition and causes arguments and i know she wants one too !

xxx

i havnt told any of my family yet and not sure if im actually going to, i live with them so they will probs realise but i know what there reaction will be (negative) so im putting it off for now. ive told a few friends and only 1 was supportive, i think jealousy springs to mind. louise just go with what you feel, if you dont want to tell people then dont x

ive got my first initial appointment a week tomorrow in watford what about you ?

I havent had any children yet or intend to for a few years and i know people say you should wait until after but i really dont want to ! so unhappy now cant imagine waiting another 6 or 7 years =0[

Are you going with MYA? have you thought about how you want it done ? i.e through nipple, belly button or traditional cut way ? i want minimal scarring but not sure whether MYA do them all.

I want the same as you just scared i will look like a barbie and really top heavy so think once i spoke to someone will make me feel better !

louise xxx

My family have been the same but once they realised how much it means to me they came round to the idea, although i havent actually told my brother hes v protective and would be v against it! The main thing is that your doing it for yourself and once your family see how happy its made u they will see it was the thing for u! x x

Im going to a D/DD. Not sure yet? hoping the surgeon can give me some advice. Im really small height ( 5ft) weight (7st 10 lbs) dress size 6 so i think if i go really big ill look daft. I went up to 34 D when i was breast feeding to i think a 32 d should look ok! when are you going and to what clinic? xx

actually thats a bit too mean, dont do that lol

just open up and talk to them 1 to 1, theyll come around

thanks hun

ive been the same size everything height (5ft 9) weight (9st) boob size (32b) dress size ( since i was 15/16 always thought i would get bigger as whole family so much more but im still small and i hate it =0[

I doubt i will have it done til august ish as need to save the money first not too sure about gettin a loan or finance (still a student) but at least once ive been i can see how much it will cost and then try and talk to my family / friends.

What size are you hoping to go up to ? (if u dont mind me asking)

louise xxx

make them feel bad for not being supportive, make them think that you think they dont love you because theyre not respecting your decisions!

thats evil advice, but it worked for me and now theyre supportive! mwa ha ha!

Hi!! I am a 32 b (ish), i have had my first consultation and am seeing the surgeon on 7th Jan. If it is something that you are wanting done purely for yourself then go for it!!! Its your body hun, i know what its like to feel unhappy with your body size/shape. Just explain to them how you feel and why you are haing it done.
Keep ya chin up hun!!!
sian xxx

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