hi hun, i havent had 2 lots of surgery at the same time, so i can’t help you there
i just wanted to send you a hug as you sound so down on yourself at the moment
i know its easy for me to say, but i’m sure you’re nothing like you describe 🙂
if its any help tho, my sister had a ba and a tummy tuck at the same time about 4 years ago. she went to a hospital in south africa to have the surgery, but she saw the consultant at a clinic in this country. she ended up going there as it was so much cheaper…but please dnt do anything rash….you’ve got to really look into it before making a decision xxx