hi girls, i found padding loadz of pillows around, under, stacked etc etc and then plonk the v pillow so ur head is resting smack bang in the the middle of the pillow! try and sleep so ur not completly upright almost at a 60degree angle so u get a slight numb ass instead of the whole lot! have ur normal pillows like a ladder behind u! i ended up having like 7 pillows i stole my 3 flatmates!! after a week i 4t sod this im going flat….. best night ever lol!! stick in there it wont be long ladies mine look fine and i was on my side by night 10 i think it was xx