what does everyones partners think?

my partner has never been keen on the idea (says he loves my bobies how they are dosent want me to change them etc etc) im just wondering if his opion will change once i have had them?X

my bf said that too, tellin me not to get them done, even tho he’d never seen me without a very padded bra! so i think he jus felt like he had to say that lol coz if he’d of said “yeh good get em done!” wud probably of p*ssed me off anyway! but now he LOVES them, hes obsessed lol! x

is he really!!…. arrr that makes me feel alot better!!!… i think he is worried about the attention i may get!! and the people that gossip in my village etc!!.. does he like the feel of them? xx

My hubby doesn’t want me to have them done but at the same time he knows how unhappy I am (I haven’t let him see me without a bra on since I stopped breastfeeding our daughter). He’s even paid for it for me even though he doesn’t want me to have it done, Bless him <3 x

my fella fully supported my decisions, but always said he loved me the way i was, and that if i wanted them doing it had to be for the right reasons, and now they are here, like ayshababy, hes so obsessed, he’d be my bra if i let him xx

Aww bless him thats soo lovely!! u know what they say a happy missis is a happy relationship!! xx

My partner said if that’s wat u want then do it, I’m happy with them but if ur not I’ll get them for u, he said I don’t ask for nothin or really do anythin so he wouldn tell me no I can’t have it, so I booked to see surgeon an booked my op an now im nearly 6 weeks po, he loves them braggs about them too his mates an it’s given me so much confidence in the bedroom! he was feelin them last nite but there still a bit hard in places so he said I’ll have a better feel in a few weeks cause I don’t wanna brake them lol xxx

Mine was a bit unsure at first, told me I didn’t need it but now that it’s getting close he’s quite excited! He’s a boob man and think he was worried at one point cos he thought I was doing it for his sake so he kept banging on about he loves them how they are but now that he’s realised I’m only doing it for myself because I’m so self conscious, he’s really on board and is taking me to the hospital and staying with me as long as he can. To think how obsessed he is with my boobs now I dread to think how bad he’ll be when they’re bigger and better lol xx

yep megagray same here i think a big part of him tellin me not to doit was coz of the attention id get, he can be quite insecure! but hes been fine with it & yess he loves the feel of em, he said the other nite ohmygod ive never had boobs this nice to play with in my life haha, its given me sooo much confidence in the bedroom too, best thing ive ever done!.. and let the gossips talk!! they’re only jealous! x

sooo true it is jealousy deffo!! … i cant wait to get it done now!! did it take a while for him to be able to play with them after the op? i think it wil drive him mad not being able to touch me for a few weeks lol !! but it will be worth it ! xx

yeh about 2-3 weeks before id even let him near them.. but i wouldnt let him properly have a go on em (lol!) til id seen my surgeon for my check up!! definately worth it tho

i bet he was fustrated wasnt he lol.. another thing is i am worried about showing him straight away as i heard that it takes a few weeks for them to look nice , i dont want to scare him by showing him them straight away when they dont look great? x

My bf said my boobs were fine & it’s up to me & he always told me he wasnt a boob man ..wellall u can say is the tables turned haha ! I evenb said I thought I wasn’t a boobie mind he laughed and said I am now ! ..I think all men r worried there were got more attention etc .. I’m going on hol with my m8 & i think he’s a bit worried as I have big boobs now but he’s not letting on ! .xxx

very frustrated lol. yeh i had tubular breasts so the corrective surgery meant mine looked even worse than most girls after my op for about 3 weeks, i had a double bubble look to them coz my crease was lowered so i only showed him a little bit but wouldnt get em out fully, & i kept telin him they are gonna get rounder dont worry! after a few weeks i showed him properly n he was like oh that double boob look has gone an theyve got loads bigger!! lol dont worry hun jus let him know when u come out of ur op that aint the finished product! they keep changing for weeks! although some girls look round and perfect straight away so u mite be lucky! x

mine was like ” you couldve gone bigger but wow they are swollen…i love big tits” then few days later….during….i love your tits haha

awww love all these comments girls making me feeel sooo much more at ease with the situatuation!! there was something else i had heard .. that they are much colder to the other parts of ur body and ur unable to get erected nipples?.. i hate my nipples unless they are erect so i am kinda worried about that? xx

babe my nipples are erect alot haha i wouldnt worry about that…actually I have cotton wool pads on my nipples in my sports bra at work….lol

they dont feel colder to the rest of my body ….they just hard at the moment

Mines supportive of me as he knows how unhappy I am with my little fried eggs (as I call them, lol) and he knows it will booSt my confidence but now since I’ve gone ahead and booked a date he is panicking and going on at me about if it’s really what I want as they could rupture and giving me all these horror stories. I know he’s only doing it as he cares and he’s told me it’s because he’s worried about all the media attention that implants are getting and doesn’t want to risk anything happening to me but now he’s making me panic too!!!

hey alli how long ago was ur op ? are they realy sensitive is that why u have cotton wool hun? xx

wenchie – my partner does the same… if ur feeling unsure and need reasuring again go onto the MYA website and go on live chat .. ask them any questions and they make u feel a whole lot better. like the rupture percentage is less than 1 % at MYA x

when its cold, they are colder yes,

but my nips omg, they hardly ever got hard before my op an i hate them when they aint hard, but now they get hard so easily love it! x

really arrr wow i hope that happens with me too!!! … did u love them straight away after ur op?X

nahh i hated them for like 3 weeks, regretted it even, its normal 2 go through different emotional stages they call it the boobie blues lol, but i love them soo much now!! x

really u regretted it to start with whyyy??….xxx

coz they was cone shaped, hard & faced outwards lol i couldnt see that they was gonna drastically change, but they did!! x

coz they was cone shaped, hard & faced outwards check my pics they was really ugly, lol i couldnt see that they was gonna change, but they did!! x

aysha do you mind ive i add you babe?

Becky x

i cant believe how much they changed!!! its amazing!!!!! … bet ur sooo chuffed witht them now arent you!! .. do u find they make u look and feel chubbier? i dont the rice test yesterday and i felt so short and stocky and felt it made me look really chubby and im not at all im 5 ft 4 and slim! xx

My Boyfriend was not 100% happy, he just said ‘i love the way you are’ etc. He fully supported me throughout & is fine now, just think he was worried they’d look fake etc plus i think boys are a lot more paranoid than girls and get worried incase we get more attention etc, my boyfriend admitted that haha men hey! xxx

Charlotte do u feel he loves them now and pays them more attention than ur old ones? xx

sure becky! x

i think they make my stomach look flatter! i didnt do the rice test but i tried on the implants in a sports bra under a tshirt, and i really didnt like how they looked, made me look weird and square!! its completely different when its actual boobage & cleavage u can see x

is it arrr thats great to hear!!!! …. i think it makes me look really funny too !! but as long as its diff when its the real boobidge then thats coool/ xx

Mmm well i’m only 4 weeks po so i haven’t really had them out but he keeps saying he can’t wait till i do and keeps trying to touch them so yeah he’s happy haha xxx

really lol.. was he happy about you doin it in first place?x

Not at all lol Said i didn’t need too, men will be men! xxx

same as charlotte said …..anyone find your nipples appear bigger??sorry off topic..my bf said they look bigger:/

my hubby has always said he wasnt a boob man, I do believe him lol, hes only ever know mine been married 18 years. He knew I was unhappy and has supported my decision 100% when I first showed him like D/DD he was like “no i dont like them” too big, then he said he was sick of looking at boobs, not nasty jokingly as I was always showing him boobs.

Anyways to cut a long story short he is away with work this week and just said he thinks he is changing as he never used to look at page 3 in the paper just used to whizz past, now he is looking and looking forward to my bigger boobies.

Now im worried, hope they are big enough lol!

mine used to say he wasnt a boob man….and now he cant stop touching them haha! he loves them and says now there is even more of me to love…I live in a village and even though they are quite big, no one yet has noticed because I’m not top heavy…so no gossip yet! xx

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