Perhaps tell them you are having something done to your shoulders until you are ready to let them know?!
I’m on day 7 of post surgery and the pain is now a 3 out of 10 as still tender but can move about as normal now. So its only really the first few days when you need help lifting up because your chest is so heavy for that time.
If you are having any tightening or uplift on your boobs you will have drains but when you have these procedures the chances are you will be stopping overnight and they remove the drains the following morning- as they have to monitor over night and the next morning how much blood has drained since the op.
Hope this helps ladies. You wont regret your decision!