What went wrong……….

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and to be open and honest – but wot i dont want is for this to turn into a personal slanging match or bitch fest so please be mindful… ok here goes

When i joined the forum this used to be a great place loads of amazin gals givin out amazin advice i used to love comin on here but recently its become madness…

Girls whether or not we get on is irrelevent – but everyone is here for a reason to help each other.. i have decided to ignore ppl i dont see eye to eye with and enjoy the forum….

Pls dont turn this into a slanging match but if anyone has anything constructive to say why the forum has gone this way the pls feel free to comment on this post.

well said hun…..xxx

I know for a fact theres 3 GIRLS who have created fake profiles…I know who each of them are.And i know WHY aswel x x

How hush?xxx

Hush thats terrible – why wud they want to create fake profiles??? is it the ones we have seen over recent weeks? I dont understand why?

I’ll b honest i was really good friends with a certain person on here – wot went wrong with that i dont know but that person just turned on me for no reason – i will never be any the wiser on it.. but am going to chose to ignore that person and help the newbies xxxx may even post my pics back up

Do you recall when i said on a argument thread “If i inbox u and guess Correctly will u tell me who you are?” I did and she did same with the otheres but no i wont give there names x x

Well if that’s the case n u no for sure who these people r & u don’t like it as much as the rest of us y don’t u tell us so all this will stop?xxx

Another user kept having it implyed that SHE was the fake…So she Thought yano what I’ll join it then! x

Its not my thing when i’ve been told somethink in confidents but ive spoken to them about it…and they have said they will stop!

I’ve not been on the forum that long but i have recieved some very helpful advice from some people, i’ve also been able to look at pics, which i appreciate. I have seen some threads turn nasty and i’ve had to log out to stop myself from commenting. I try and remember that these fake posters must either be very lonely, very ugly and insecure or just completely messed up. Infact, i actually feel sorry for them that there lives are so bland they have to hide behind a fake profile.

i remember that post hun……i was on there talking to.

why do people do it.

cuks get them babalon pics back up hun xx

Yeah but that’s not some1 telling u In confidence it’s some1 Bein an absolute prick to some people on ere. N like cuks said it’s meant to help people. N if u no who the wankers r that r doin it I think u should say so. It’s not fair xxx

Odviously i asked WHY.

i just wanna chat with me biatchs and have a laugh….and of course help with all the pre op and post op girlies xx

Wat do u mean? Why?xxx

Do You know That member who riles people waits till they get an angry reply Then edits there Posts and acts innocent?? She sends them multi messages to Loads of members You know who i mean! One of the girls had Reported it LOADS of times NOTHINK was done! So she had her reasons! x

i think people tend to group together myself included, so when one person has an opinion each person in that group sticks up for each other (there are a few groups on here) as in life theres clashes of personalities and as women we are quite opinionated, where u get alot of strong opinionated personalities your gonna have conflict and bitching, prob is we are all like a dog with a bone and dont know when to stop, especially when we think we are right, maybe if mod added a block button the people that dont get on can just block one another so then the conflict can be avoided xx

Very true! I’ve pm u hush xxx

hi nikki hun just got your text.

i will sit write write it all out and message you hun..

thanks for taking the time to text me babe ment alot xx

that ok hun, only now getting in from a long day lol soz i took so long xx

o babe no worries at all….much appreciated xxx

Then odviously when people kept pointin the finger at a member even when She was on the thread typein at the same time at the fakes It wouid of been IMPOSSIBLE for her to be usein 3 PROFILES AT THE SAME TIME!! she thought yano what i shouid im bein accused anyway!!

Cuks baby girl, l was one of those girls who helped u in ur early stages:-)! l started coming on here in April but only when l had my boob job before that l had an account but never commented only started after day 1 of my journey. The 3 girls at my time that supported me was Nikki198324, xxJoxx and Lynz the Loonz l cant thank them enough. Things started turning really nasty on here when a fake profile was created and knew business about me! This honestly freeked me out! l stopped coming on here and have only certain friends I stay in touch with! xxxx

do i know her hun xx

ACtually Hush u were also there for me bac n April so thank u too xxx

Vick im always here hun x x

hushy was my booby buddy to, think this is why we all group together coz we had our opps the same time xx

Yeah ) l agree xx

i joined later but still found you all fab all where always there for me….always helped me so much and i love ya all for it xx

I reckon we get on because we’re down to earth x x

even though i joined later you still all welcomed me with open arms made me feel well at ease xx

Meow caused all this…came out of nowhere, seriously freaked everyone out, got us all paranoid to hell and it’s gone downhill ever since…I’m done with it all now, I’m deactivating…it’s been an experience and iv met some great girls ( you know who you are) but I’m fed up of playground shit now…. xx

arr my jo dont leave me hun xx

Thats Spot on jo! the first fake (Meow) Destroyed the forum! Nobody has admited to that profile if they had of ive of turned them in! x

what on earth did they ever get out of destroying something so good xx

and I want to thank u all..I can’t say a bad word about anyone really..have only had good experiences..some of u have gone the extra mile for me and you know who u are, I don’t need to name u..x I won’t leave yet because the good still exceeds the bad and the ugly..when it doesn’t, I’ll reconsider…x

Remember a few days before they went mad on here? They started a thread about gettin a loan for Ba? Then the loan fell throw,i think they kinda took it out on the forum lol! x

that sort of rings a bell!!xx

Thanx everyone for ur posotive comments thispost was never meant to cause any offence or upset and i am glad it has stay civilised xx

cuks ive messaged the mod with my view on this thread hun xx

If i was the Mod i wouid punish the people who went onto the threads to argue with the dodge members! THEY ARE JUST AS BAD! for makein it continue x x

Bit disappointed others have not commented.

Thanx nikki – if we get to the root of the problem then hopefully this place can go back to the happy hippy days we all used to have x

i hope the mod doesnt mind us socialising on here are well as giving advice lol xx

Cuks they wont comment inless its negative x x

I doubt it hun … aww well the bars opoen if anyone wants pop in for a beer or cokey x

girls come on, this thread is not for anyone to take offence to, its for the mod to see what we think needs doing to make the forum a happy place again, please make some comments on how you think it can be improved xx

Hi Girls just checking in on you all. Glad to see the forum is getting back to normal!

Hope you are all well now, I have well and truly lost the forum bug ….

Take care my beauts xx

fairy!!!! love u hunni xxx

Aww fairy stick around ly x x

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