When will I be ready for extra curricular activities?

Hi guys, need help. Had my boob operation on Sunday and the guy I am seeing is down next weekend 25th February. Will that be too soon to see him or shall I leave it another week? So want to see him and be ready!! xx

hehehe i started to have um sex:D With my bf on day 10…lets just say it was quite hard to figure out the best way haha but was bit uncomfortable but it is possible…..make sure he doesnt touch them though lol

Ah thanks Alli, did it hurt at all? He cant wait to touch them. Maybe Ill get him to massage them instead. x

my incisions were burning a bit when i leaned too far back…so best to sit up a bit lol with a duvet or pillows behind you …or stand up…sorry for the graphics ….hope this helps

Haha, no you are fine. Just what I want to hear. Sorry for my next comment can I go on top?? God this sounds bad. xx

nooo …dont go on top I attempted it and couldn’t move haha…if only it would,was my one opportunity to go on top haha he always wants to dominate but secretly so do I haha

lay infront of a pile of pillows or bunch your duvet together….i guarded my boobies by putting my legs a bit up over them hahahaha

ok i will stop with the graphics…it took a while to figure this out….maybe this will save some time…haha

Ah thanks you so much, really appreciate your comments. Was going to put him off till the following weekend but think it will help my healing!! This has definetly saved me some time and discomfort. Thanks again. xx

This made me giggle I’m in same boat! Lol iv been throwing him with the “I cant take the pill yet” but it feels like forever!

Thanks girls x x

Haha, Mayflame its a tricky one. Need to know these things. Im going to go back on the pill once Ive seen the nurse tomorrow. Glad it brought a smile, hopefully I will have a smile or 2 next week. haha.xx

I’m only 1 week po so got another week off pill yet! Lol and yeh they don’t put these things in after care! Maybe there should be a note in the po boobie bible lol after all its natural hehe and seeing the nurse we have enough questions to slip in ” by the way what positions can/cant I do? How long after?” Lol I sort of said when can I go back to the gym? She said 3 mths! Omg! Hehe and happy smiling caroline x x

Haha, yeah I agree. We have enough information on all the other important things but we need to get to the nitty gritty!! I just hope I am physically ready by next week. Im definetly foing to let that question slip in. Also I too cant wait to get back to the gym, have also been told its 3 months. Happy healing. xx

thank u and same to u huni have a great weekend . Xx

Cheers, you too. Bandages off tomorrow- yipee!! xx

having sex with my bf made me feel more human again and less sorry for myself haha

although I think he is dying using a condom lol…

I started it today day 16 po….tried to wait for my period but couldnt any longer……can the next 7 days fly by….being off the pill is such a inconvenience lol esp to my sex life with my bf:/

goodluck ladies hehehehe

feedback is needed lol xxx

We waited a week and jheeze it was awkward!! I’m 4 weeks post op now and still find it awkward lmao!!! xx

Haha, cheers Alli and Hollyhotpants. These are the comments that Im after. I know exactly what you mean when you say it makes you feel human again. Im soo looking forward to it as it has already cheered me up as havent done anything and Day 5 po. My poxy period came on the day of my operation! Straight after I did the pregnancy test haha. So will go back on the pill next week. More feedback is definetly needed!! xx

eee you have more bottle than me i’ve told my partner to wait 6weeks no ifs or buts lol just too scared to have any sex yet lol xxx

Haha Kaylajay. Dont think I could wait that long apparently 2weeks is the minimum time recommended by the surgeon. Going to ask nurse tomorrow when she takes the bandages off. xx

oh i got told any form of exercise 6weeks lol i am just really scared so ive put him on a sex ban … good thing we been together for 3 years and he understands lol think if it was a newly relationship i would of been chucked haha you will have to tell me how it goes (hope that doesnt sound pervy hehe) let me know what the nurse says also lol can i add you ? xxx

Haha, Kaylajay no worries. Will let you know how both outings go!! I think physical activity is usually a 6 week allowance and then usually 2 weeks for it but going easy and slow. Mine is a fairly new relationship and he is 8 years younger so want to keep the interest up!! Cool add away. x

Me and my partner managed to day 6. But I held them the whole time!! And he had to do all the work! Haha! And not being on the pill is a pain!!! I can’t wait to go back on mine now x

Ah thats good to know Babzies about him having to do all the work! I think he thinks he is going to get to play with these bad boys haha. He will have to wait!!

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well my partners just been on the phone demanding the 6weeks gets shortened haha yous have jinxed me lol and tar ill add now xxx

Haha whoops! Sorry Kaylajay, he must have a sixth sense. Ill let you know how it goes next weekend. haha. x

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tar lol i told him to go away and said its 6weeks no sooner and hung up hehe xxx

Haha, that is funny!! My sister has told me off and said I should be leaving it for at least 4 weeks. I cant wait that long. x

haha we are a commical relationship man lol you do have bottle having sex so soon honest are you not nervous lol xxx

Yep nervous bigtime but hoping it will be worthwhile! Im sure if we take it slow it will be fine. Just not patient enough to wait till 6 weeks! x

lol bless you ,, it actually isnt bothering me im too happy about having boobs that i couldnt care about the sex yet hes just been on the phone asking when can he see them so i said 3weeks haha i dont want him to see them so hard and stiff lol you been with you partner for long then? xx

Haha, fair play. Its early days with my one, only been 4 months! I know what you mean about being happy with the boobs but I think as sometimes the medication makes you feel low this has actually helped put a smile on my face!! x

oh four months aint that early i mean yous know eachother well enough but is it long distance with you two or something jsut when you said hes over next weekend? aw bless you ,, the medication made me dopey but tonight ive been ok – when do you go and see the nurse? xxx

Yeah fairly early in terms of not sure what is going on with the relationship. He lives in Epsom which isnt too far but can only see him at weekends. Going to the nurse tomorrow.Fingers crossed the bandages wont be too painful when she pulls it off. x

oh have you got bandages on ? what sort of stitching did you get aswel? i just have my stitches covered i’m due on wednesday ,, you’ll have to let me know what they do and stuff tomorrow – so when do we see our surgeon again? xx

Yeah the bandages are well tight wrapped around the boobs and chest area. Im hoping the stiches are dissolvable. Will find out tomorrow. Will let you know how it goes tomorrow. I think we get to see the surgeon 6 weeks after. Hopefully that will fly by!! Ill message you tomorrow with all the details. xx

yeah please do lol ok well speak tomorrow babe hope everything goes well xxx

Cheers fingers crossed. x

hi girls just bn reading this post made me chuckle, im glad some1 dared ask this question lol, as i recieved info off nurse and it sxaid 6weeks!!my appoint is 16th march told my fella who has the sex drive of rampant rabbit!! and he told me id best get myself to ann summers shop for blow up doll for him !!! he was joking…i hope i cant imagine going 6weeks without it we have it every single day!!!xx

dont worry girls im day 20post op, had a date with my bf lastnight at the art cinema and we had fairly wild fun lastnight after…just no hands on the boobs….each day gets a bit easier so hang in there;)

You asked what all us pre-op girls have been wondering! haha xx

I waited 5 days haha! xx

i waited 10 days and It was torture..if I didnt have such a bad recovery with pain and swelling it would defs have been sooner lol

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