whove you told about your ba? Started by: vikkix

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  • vikkix
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    Literally the above question..

    Partners are kind of the obvious one to tell

    what about

    – close friends?

    – work friends?

    – family – sisters/parents/more distant relatives?

    – everyone you know?

    What sort of resposne did you get?

    Im not sure who I want to discuss it with, Im going from B – DD (i hope!!) and so considering now I wear such padded bras I dont think its going to be hugely noticeable.

    I dont think I want to tell people at work because think they will be bitchy just going to take a week off for it and not say what i’m up too. i dont have a bf. I’ve only told my sister whos coming with me so far, other than that i dont know that i need to tell anyone else as its not like you girls who can all offer advice and so i cant be asked with anyone being bitchy about it or blabbing!!

    princess76 9
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    Ooh, I told everyone. Saying that, I have told people that are friends and family, and let it be known that as it’s no secret I am not bothered who knows really. I have had great responses from everyone. I figured that it will notice afterwards so I’d rather people knew in advance than stare and discuss it behind my back (can’t imagine anyone asking me to my face if my boobs were like that before lol!). Often if you are open and up front about things people don’t have anything to talk about and they get bored v quickly. That’s my theory anyway!

    I guess it does depend on where you work tho and the people there, I am starting a new job soon so by the time I get there no-one will have known me pre-op, so I doubt it would even come up. Girls can be very bitchy and jealous, so if they wouldn’t notice then don’t mention it to them.

    You’ve got to do whatever is comfortable for you though. The more people you tell the more word gets around. I had botox a couple of months ago and told a few people I worked with, it wasn’t a secret or anything, but when I went out last night it was the talk of the pub with people who I bbarely knew. So word does get around!

    Good luck x x

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    I’ve told anyone I know I wouldn’t be able to hide it from before, during and after. Work know and I don’t really care what the think, partner, mates, mum and dad, grand parents, pretty much everyone lol. I don’t care what anyone thinks, most people who are negative are jealous or they are too scared to take the plunge themselves :) xxx

    princess76 9
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    Well said Nikibockerglory x

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