why are 'friends' such bitches about my new boobs!! :(

sorry girls bt im jst reallly peed off!!

my best mate has been so supportive from the start of me thinking about getting my boobs done..i am now 4months post op! and she was one of my only friends who agreed with it and jst sed ‘if it makes u happy do it’

so iv just shown her a dress that i have bought for my birthday night out in a couple of weeks, n yeaa it is abit more revealing than other dresses i used to wear, bt iv never had a bloody cleavage!! EVER! and now i love my new boobs n cleavage, n they are not massive or in your face n look so natural. n this dress is jst a bit more low cut than what i wud have worn before my op (altho since my op i have worn a few low cut tops/dresses etc) and her words were.. ‘fkin hell, ull be gettin ur moneys worth out of ur new tits in that wont u!!’ really frickin sarcastic and has totally peeed me off!!

i may be over reactin bt she sounded so bitchy n nasty, and did exactly what she has called other people for bein like with me! usually she wud jst say ‘aw ur boobs wil look wel nice in that’ or sumthin along them lines!

soo annoyed with her xx

lol dont worry shes prob feelin bit insecure now next to u. but shell get over it

Im glad youve mentioned this Chels..Ive got a small group of ‘close’ friends who I have told that I’m getting my BA done. Two of them have been supportive (if it makes you happy, go for it type reaction) the other was shocked, saying ‘what are you getting THAT done for?’, leaving me feeling like theres something wrong with me for wanting to improve my appearance!!

Dont get me wrong, it doesnt put me off having the BA at all, but I cant figure out if its jealousy, insecurity, shock and its made me question her level of friendship to be honest …

Has anyone else had this reaction from their mates? xxx

awww chels, guess she is just getting a bit jealous hun, you have fab new boobies so be very proud make sure you put up a pic of you in your new dress on here hun, we’d all love to see it x

Awww chels, I totally get why ur pissed off. Some of my ‘friends’ have been exactly the same. They’re just jealous honey, maybe u should just tell her why you’re upset, or ask her why she said that. She’s prob just jealous… But I’m sure she’d feel really bad knowing she’s upset you…… Xxx

aw, thats rubbish! iv had a lot of bad reactions from friends when iv told them im gettin mine done. someone even said i was selfish to risk leavin my son without a mother if anything went wrong! theres still such a stigma attached to havin cosmetic surgery, especially boobs, but i think youve got to do what makes you happy. bet you look fab in your dress!xxx

thanks girls, yeaa maybe, im gna calm down a bit n then ask her why she sed it like that wen shes always been the only one iv been able to talk too. i cnt believe how bitchy some of my other friends have been! saying stuff like y the hell wud u wnt to do sumthin like that! it never put me off either kezza, bt it does make u feel like u are ‘abnormal’ for wanting to better yourself.and they all have such perfect figures my mates, n iv always been the ‘bigger’ one of the bunch, so i went on such a mission to loose weight and lost a stone n half n treated myself to new boobs! and its the best thing ive ever done now! bt just upsets me that my friends cant accept it and be happy for me.

she shudnt b jealous because she is stunning, and no she doesnt have big boobs, but shes always she sed ‘she has never even thought about surgery and cant understand why i wud want to cz i shud b happy with how i am’ bt has always been nice about it and has grown to understand a lot more. xx

omg thats awful marie! i cant believe what comes out of some peoples mouths! and yeaa i think it does have a really bad image with the words ‘boob job’ bt people dont realise why we do these things and how much it can change us and make us feel womanly. the next person that tells me ‘men hate fake boobs so i dnt no y u bothered’ erm…i didnt do it for MEN!! i did it me!! xx

Dont worry bout that hun. Sounds like some1s got green eyed monster syndrome!!!! Dont let that shit get ya down. U wear wat u wana wear. U ave payed good money 4 those babies why not show em off!!! Screw wat any1 else says. Enjoy them x x x

J.E.L.O.U.S.Y is a terrible thing! Id flash them in her face even more now if i were u! haha maybe thts just me bein a bitch tho :S lol x

hahaa im actch tempted nw sandy!! and yeaa lauren i think if u have paid all that money its your choice if u wnt to flaunt them its nt like this dress is rly bloody revealing tho, thats whats annoyin! i think iv already worn more low cut stuff in the last few wks. shes rly disappointed me! cz now i jst think shes been lyin to me all along n has probably bin slaggin me off to the others! xx

100% Jealousy!!! Smell it a mile off!!! xxx

haha, sandy a mate of mine whos had her boobs done was in a bar and some girls were lookin at her funny, and one came up to her, looked at her boobs and said to her ‘are we meant to believe theyre yours?’. she grabbed them and said ‘ i was the one who bloody paid for them, course theyre mine!’

think you need to be proud about, no point goin through all that just to feel bad about it xxx

hahaa i like that! defo gna start doin that truee, it is something we shud be proud about, its made me so happy and i dnt need people puttin me bk dwn! xx

See the girl tht came upto your mate, i bet she was saving for her own BA! I do love your friends comeback!! very quick lol xxx

im also worried abt the negative reactions im gon to get once ppl find out iv hd nose job i already had a txt from my cusn saying ur nose is really fukd u needed to do it so i jus sed that oni ppl wit no moni can chat cheap! but i am expecting comments to be made now.surgeries nt a big deal but the ppl hu will prob b negative r the ones hu av nva considered avn plastic surgery or those hu secretly want it and are insecure. or theyr jus childish. but i gt few parties comin up and my cusz sed ur gna b known as the girl hu had a nose job! i will prob b the oni person there hus had surgery cus indian ppl r not big on cosmetic surgery so now im gna av this lable. jus gna av2c how it goes.

lol at marie123 friend sum gals man!

yeaa i agreee they r only negative because of sum hidden reason! we jst av to realize that ther are some nasty ppl n av to let it go over our heads! as long as it makes u happy thats all that matters i suppose! x

yh tru im the one hu gna av to look at this face everyday! n wa ever they say aint gna last longer than how happy u gna feel

While your bestfriend made a harsh comment, it’s definitely hiding some underlying insecurities – She probably feels shadowed by you when you’re out and it’s either making her question herself, or she doesn’t like the shift of attention. If it’s the first option, try to be understanding because in some respects, the dynamics of your friendship have changed slightly and try to offer her some support. If it’s the second option, then you’re probably better off without people who thrive on ego

Whatever happens, good luck, and remember, life is too short for drama.

def think that my mate was right to react like that- she doesnt shove them in peoples faces, but i think if people think they have the right to say things like that you need to put them in their place!

hope i can follow that advice once iv had mine done!xx

Fcuk em hun I don’t think a single one of my close or even ‘pretend’ friends would be like that n it’s nothin to do with them anyway like people have said you’ve spent enough money on em so get em out it’s like them buyin an expensive handbag or shoes there gona want to wear them out n show them off not put em in the cupboard n leave em there X

Bloody right. You’ve paid enough to what?? Hide them away?? I don’t think so! If she says anything again, I would just turn to her with a little smirk on your face and say in a sickly sweet voice ‘touch of the green eyed monster coming out there matey?’

Im hoping im not gunna get the same reaction… ive told a small group of friends and most have been really supportive and said yay great stuff etc but my 1 best mate just seems to not really wanna talk about it much with me like when i say ive finally got everything sorted about my plans etc she just kinda says “gdgd” and ive showed her pics of boobs i wudnt mind having and her reaction is “hmm yeah but u can tell their fake and ud fall ova if u had those!” but she already has DD boobs herself so just seems like shes scard shes gunna loose her crown or summat lol! but im wanting it doing for me not to get em out for every tom dick n harry! also a girl at my mates wrk had her boobs done and she had 32b n had summat like 310cc and got to a DD, and my mate was saying to me why r they offering u 460 whn my mate had 310 and got to a dd it doesnt add up! im like every 1 is different u dnt understand! suppose if ur not in the kno about it all you wouldnt understand x

Laura, I’d shove them in her face at every given opportunity. It’s obvious she’s jealous. She may have boobs but they won’t be as pert as your new ones are gonna be and she’ll probably know that. x

I do actualy think shes jealous! some girls are,so bitchy! ive had my female friends Askin if they can cope a feel lol xx

Well shes always been known for having big boobs out of all my friends so maybe shes insecure but she knows im getting it done for me not every 1 else! just wish she would have a bit more time for it and be a bit more positive for me shes not said owt bad recently so we shall see! since ive said im getting 1 tho she has said ohh maybe i mite need an uplift in the future!(im thinking from what u said about pertness lol) x

Female bitchiness is a horrid thing! Most of my friends have been fine with it, and none have been nasty about it (tho god knows what they say when I’m not there,…lol)! Just try and raise above it, it all stems from jealousy! If you got it, flaunt it ,I say babe!! Lol

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thanx for all your replies girls! needed to get it off my chest last night as i was so angry n upset. so id calmed down abit today and confronted her and asked her why she sed it in that way and has she gt a problem, she replied with ‘ i didnt even mean it in a bitchy way so dnt take it to heart’ she tried to be overly nice with me after that. i think she had realised she was out of order n didnt think i wud confront her. even tho she was tryna be nice n sed sorry i had took it that way, im stil pissd off cz i no she cudnt have ment it in any other way!!

never mind, im gna wear my dress and shove my boobs right in her face all nite! il put the pics on in a couple of wks

and silshake i do think u r rite..cz shes always sed shes never rly thought about surgery and now iv had my boobs done n shes realised how much theyve changed me n gave me confidence (which she probably doesnt like) think it cuda made her think about it, shes gt a perfect figure bt she has never had any chest. nt that thats a bad thing if it doesnt bother her, its jst something iv always bin v conscious so maybe shes starting to judge herself.

oh well, i love my boobies and thats all that matters! keep flaunting them beautiful ladies!! xx

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