Why does he think that???

Hi girlies

I know i’m always going on about my problems on here, but that’s because u all seem so understanding. My bf had an arguement with me yesterday saying that i’m vain and immature for wanting surgery. He doesnt seem to know how much i want a nose job and then possibly a boob job. How can i make him see how much it means to me to have this done as i’ve always hated it am i being vain?? xx

you are doing it for yourself and not your boyfriend. If he loves you then he will want whatever makes him happy. My boyfriend doesnt feel I need it but he is happy that I am getting it x

My partner couldnt understand why I wanted my boobs done. Your not vain. In this day and age why should you put up with something you can change. I felt bad to begin with but I know I will feel more confident and this will help with my life. So no you go girl. My partner has helped me pay for this now as he knows what it means to me. He has seen many a tear. Do it for you. He will have to deal with it not you. Good luck.xx

What are u getting done hun?? And that’s whats confusing me cuz he said e will help me out with the nose job money, but when i mentioned boob job afterwards he was like “No way, i’m not helping you with that”. I know its cuz he’s insecure but i’m sick of having to reassure him…men!! xx

Tell me about it. I am having 685 overs. Breast augmentation. My fella is going to be a pain, but my boobs will be with me for life….Unlike him…lol.

I know julieanne, i think he’s starting to understand how much i hate my nose and thats exactly what i said, if i can change it why put up with it? but he is soo against me having a boob job..i’m only a small 32B and have lost weight so probably even smaller now xx

Men do not like us women to change. Mine is the same. very possesive. But hell its my body. If he has a problem well he can deal with it. I have had 5 kids and lost 5 stone. I damm well deserve it. All hes done is lie. ha ha. Keep smiling hun.xx

I had the same reactions when i mentioned i wanted a boob job, ‘why do you want that’ they would say male and female, but when i explained my boobs werent slightly how they should be and i felt unwomanly they would say its all in my head and to sort my head out. So i replied oh well when i get it done i wont be including and to the male ones i said you wont get to cop a feel lol. Men are so insecure tho and they complain about us but i bet your bf will love them once they are done he is just scared other men will love them just as much. Go for it I say!! xx

Thats what he said..he thinks i’ll go off him when i hopefully get boobies and run off with someone better…i was like well if it happens it happens lol i had to reassure him but he shouldn’t think that of me xx

With something like this that will make you feel better in yourself you cant let anyone stand in your way, he will just have to get over it…Men!! lol xx

I know ur right…so i’m gonna get both done lol is it okay to add u hun?? xx

Men are insecure that’s shy they have a problem they think we will leave them cause we are making ourselves better instead of thinking the other way and being proud to have a beatiful woman on there arm !

Yeah defo of course hun xx

Milliejo thats such a true comment and why i am single at the minute you get fed up of making them feel better all the time, instead they could just say how lucky they are to have us on their arm pmsl xx

Sooo true, they should be grateful that we wanna make ourselves look better 2bh lol xx

That’s it girls. We have to think of us for a change. X

we as women also fail to understand that these men love us for who we are and most don’t think we need improving! xxx

I know but its just the fact he’s okay with a nose job but says no to a boob job, double standards a little, so that’s why i dont understand why he goes off on one about it xx

It doesn’t make you vain at all hun, I’ve been with my bf 6 months now and when I told him id had a nose job two years ago n that I’m wanting my boobs done soon he was saying that I’m vain n it’s a stupid waste of money, no ones perfect blah blah blahh! But he doesn’t understand, I’m not trying to be perfect, there’s plenty of other things I don’t really like about the way I look but I wouldn’t change them cus it’s me. He has no idea how unconfident I was bout my nose until I had it done, was paranoid about it constantly. I’m so much happier with myself now, it’s just my lack of boobs I hate now but I’ve always knew I just wanted my nose n boobs done so I’m pretty sure itl stop there, hopefully ha! Funnily enough he said hel help me out n pay half tho lol men pfft

Do it for you chick not him. He should want you to do what makes you happy xx

Stacey tbh,im pretty sure hes think hell,i aint helpin to pay for a nosejob then boobs! i KNOW what men are like all my friends are guys x x

Mercedes my boyfriend wAs dead against me having my boobs done. He waa adimant i wernt going to get then done as i didnt nees to ect. I am now 3 weeks PO an he paid every last penny for me. Lol. Xx

I know ur right Mercedes, i hate my nose sooo much, and hush2 he doesnt mind paying, but its just a boob job he said he dnt want me to have, he said any other procedure but that, just abit confusing, sometimes he’s supportive and other times he isn’t. I dont want him to help me with a boob job cuz i want my nose job sooooo much more xx

one word “insecure” tell him you want your boobs done you’ll have them done, he doesn’t own your body !I bet your next bf would appreciate it lol x

It would actually make sense to get them done at the same time. Less time off work, heal all in one. Like the other girls have already said, do it for yourself. I have wanted it done for more than 10 years and it never went away, it didn’t make any difference what my boyfriend’s said over that time span. If you’re not sure if you will be together for a long time, i’d be tempted to say pay for it yourself. I am sure he will come round, take him to the consultations and he can see that there’s nothing to worry about x

Emilyjane- I need your boyfriend! Haha. x

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