Why wont my mum accept the fact i want a reduction because im in pain!!!!!

Me and my mum keep having arguments about my reduction.

She thinks i just need new bras and dont worry about the sagging.

I have back ache every day! my boobs have stretchmarks all over them.

i wear 2 bras to my dance class.

Yea im a bit over weight at the moment and im in the process of loosing weight but even then my boobs are going to be saggy!

I just dont know what to do!

its getin me down even more than having back pain and horrible oversized discusting heavy boobs!!

Hun jst do it. Ur mum will c how happy it makes um if ur in pain u need it 2 make ur life better. I no it sounds mean but she aint gota live with it has she x

Do you live with your mum? Is she paying for it? If not do it just anyway & deal with the **** after x

Im 25, live with my mum. Im goin to hopefully be paying for it but she just thinks i need a good bra. I dont want a new bra. I want new boobs! I hate upsetting her but im living for me. Did anyone else have the same problem? X

I haven’t even told my mum TBH, I’m 23 with 2 kids, lived on my own since 16 but I’m not telling her til I’ve had them done! So I’m **** with the advice, but surely she’ll get used to it eventually? x

Im just worried how im gona get transpott to and from the hospital. Really want my mums support x

I know where you are coming from with this one. I told my mum i wanted a ba cos i was asymmetrical and tiny for my size 12 body and she was sooooo against it. he tried every trick in the book to talk me out of it so in the end i just booked it. I told her two weeks before and although she wasn’t happy she knew it was what i wanted and that i had took my time thinking about it (nearly a year when she said 6 months.) She was very upset but said she would support me and she has. She hasn’t wanted to know all the details or anything but she was ringing me every day afterwards to see how i was and said she would be right over if i needed her (She lives a few hundred miles away!)

She was just really worried and chances are your mum is too. You are her baby and she wants you to be happy but to her it is still surgery and a general anaesthetic. They naturally think of all the things that can go wrong, not all the benefits you will get. Im 7 weeks post op now and I still havent seen my mum yet but i showed her a pic of my old boobs on skype the other day and she was like oooh yeah they are quite different (reffering to my asymmetry) I didnt realise they were that bad! Haha. She wants to see me in person to show her my boobs an i know she will be surprised by how good and natural they look and not jordan like at all and my scars are tiny. Mums worry, its what they are there for but if its what you want then go for it! Life is too short and im sure once your mum realises you are serious then i’m sure she will come round…if mine can anyones can! Good luck hun xx

Because mums are a pain and they love you as you are and expect you to love everything about yourselves the way they do. My mum left me with crooked teeth when I was a teenager and refuted the dentist s advice to give me a FREE brace on my teeth. I’m now in my thirties paying thousands for a brace on my teethed have never liked my teeth. We must follow our own desires. Nice for our parents to love us as we are but more important that we love ourselves xxx

Thanks hun. that was a lovely story and i know its coz of the money and the procedure of actually havin my boobs hacked off. I think im just gona try come up with the money and book it.

I actually showed her a picture of my boobs after we had a massive screaming match and she didnt say a word after so she knows i need it and knows im serious. its just trying to get her to come with me. I wouldnt want anyone else there but my mum.

Oh well. Wish me luck peeps. Gona be a year yet but its in motion at last

xxx

Anchovie thats right! spot on. they live in there generation where they lernt to just live with it but i dont wana just live with it. i wana be happy and active and stand up straight. hehe

thanks girls for the comments x

really helped me it has xx

You may not see her support til you actually do it! Sounds like a strong natured woman. She will come round. Have you chosen a surgeon? Mario very good at breast work x

Added u maybe I can help u choose a surgeon xx

Im contemplating Mario, Mr Singh and Ms Lutz from Transform however im gona have a consultation with harley street, hospital group and NU cosmetics yet and see if i can find anything better but i have a good feeling about Ms Lutz and Mr Singh atm, i want a reduction but one whee they work on making the breast look fuller almost fake looking with the breast tissue u already have. ( my friends wont be to pleased as they all want me to share) But still in consultation process atm. gona be a long time before i get my surgery done x

From what you describe I think Mario cd be your man. Check out my pics if u like. Be careful not to fall in love with him tho like i have. It’s very distracting

Haha does he do breast reductions then?? Ive hear Mr Singh has years of reductions. Ive seen Mario’s work aswell on Embaracing bodies so i sort of know a bit about him.

I know hes done a lot of uplifts with implants and your boobs look fantastic for the amount of time its been. Im really impressed.

I love the fake look as even if they start going south again and ive had a reduction they will just hang slightly lower and not as heavy as they are now.

does he do weekend appointments?

xxx

I was a Saturday patient so yes he does weekends!! It ink he does reduction too. He’s a fab surgeon xxxx

Hes done some fantastic work hasnt he! So is Mya a good company to go with??

They seam lovely and friendly.

I found transformn very to the point aswell but gave me more of information.

I know the next step is the surgeons now and then i can make a decision.

Also did u have disolvable stitches? thats one thing that worries me

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