Y r some people so mean!! Started by: Annie

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  • Annie
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    Told this girl at work I was getting boobs done as she will notice and she told me I was stupid bla bla.. (she thinks shes perfect ) so I ended up comming home crying.. Aslong as my mum Is there then y should I let her bother me?! But can’t help it? Feel angry! X

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    Aw honey, dont let small minded people upset you.

    Remember you are not doing this for anyone else, but yourself. So as long as you are certain you want them and are getting them done for the right reasons sod everyone else!

    Once you have had then done, you wont give two hoots what people think – you will love them and it will all be worth it :) xx

    heather119 -1
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    Fuck her hun green eyed bitch thats all she is and iv come across alot of them lately

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    hey annaxx i had the same and unfortunetly two of them were my closest friends, some people do not understand but dont let it get you down think how amazing your gonna feel afterwards, at one point i was reconsidering having it done as i didnt want the negative remarks but i think deep down its their own insecurites x chin up x

    abi20
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    awh this is so sad, dont let her get you down honey!:) people like that are not worth it .. its your decision and you’l love them, who cares what anyone else thinks its gonna make you happy:D xx

    rach85
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    thats just total jelousy .. shes masking it as she doesnt agree with it, its stupid , its waste of money .. nope ..its just jelousy ..

    mhowie
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    omg if my mate was getting it done it be like noooo waaaaayyyy i wana feel lol xxxxxxx

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    exactly your all right its jealousy which is a very unattractive trait to have your getting your boobs for you and aslong as your mum and close friends are supporting you thats all that matters i told my best mate and she hardly spoke to me for 6 weeks then confessed she was jealous and very sorry, she’ll be annoyed your boobs will make you a more amazing person make sure you flaunt them bad boys huni :) xx

    loobies
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    My so called best friend of 20 years hasn’t spoke to me since I told her I was having my boobs done. I told her in November, had my op in December .I really thought shed be happy for me, but people are strange.don’t let them get to you. Xx

    Annie
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    Thanks girls.. Just couldn’t help it getting at me tonight! I guess because I’m not a sly person and just happy for people I don’t understand it! Nm!! Thanks for the nice comments xx

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    your kidding loobies thats awful…jealousy really is a terrible thing!!xx

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    same here loobies my 2 best friends who i have been friends with for 15 years reacted awful to it when i told them , they had even been talking to each other saying how they thought i was losing the plot and how drastic it was for me to be having surgery, they think my attitude towards myself has changed because of me making this decision and that i have lost all my weight from having my little boy and i exercise a few times a week, i thikn they want me to be fay and have saggy boobs for life haha

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    You’re the better person anna, because u are happy for people. Those who turn their noses up to girls trying to make themselves feel better are sad sad people xx all girls wanna look good, its in our nature xx

    Annie
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    I can’t believe friends haven’t spoke to people because of having it done! It’s crazy! And if people r like that they r not worth our time! It’s nice u guys understand ! X

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    iv only had nasty comments off people that i dont really like, most people have been fully supportive, even my grandad phoned me today to ask why i didnt tell him before, as he would have flown over to look after my son

    i got called an airhead at the school gates, from a gypsie wana be (how funny!), but iv put all the nasty comments down to people not actually have the balls to change what they dont like about themselves

    loads hate been pale (i love being milk bottle white), and they live their life under sunbeds, but no-one shouts nasty comments in the street if they see a tanned person (if they are orange we are all allowed a sniggle), they changed something they didnt like, so thats no different in my eyes xx

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    i find it so odd and unbelievably difficult to understand why people find it so offensive to actually waste years of friendship over, sad really!!! not like we are doing anything wrong and its our own body

    hollybol 2
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    Because they probably have shit boobs themselves but don’t dare get it done… Pay no attention whatsoever, it’s always going to happen occasionally but all you can do us rise above it xx

    leah91 -1
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    Pure jealously ! Trust me …I told the girls at work was all fine by one slather me right off saying how silly vain I was ..funny now ..wen I returned to work first to ask the ins and outs of the op and what they look like can she fill them haha like fuck can she ! Se was slating me 2 te ground pre op now Shes saying to the girls why have your boobs done if your not going 2 show any one ! As if I would show them 2 her oh and the latest y day was I’m

    Consdering a boob job after seeing how good and natural mine lOok nearly fell on the floor hypocrit much !! She then told me she couldn’t afford it I no it’s bitchy but I thought to my self GOOD ! she was so nasty :(

    So don’t worry babe defo jel !! Xx

    ayshababy 5
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    its pure jealousy hun trust me, she probs wants hers done & hasnt got the confidence, guts or $$$! dont let her get 2 u x

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    it so sad how people react to the news of a BA. i must admit i have had very supportive comments and my mum is flying over from spain to look after me, even my dad has been great and jokes about it. But you do notice the odd little remark or twitch when you mention it to people. i just laugh in their faces. why do people feel the need to be so negative, just because we’re having this done does not change the person we were the day before the op so dont treat us any differently the day after. Peoples true colours show and unfortunetly is dog shit brown just like their attitude. x

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    People are horrible honey because they think they are perfect,and that’s all well and good for them,lucky for them,but we would not be putting ourselves through surgery if we did’nt feel we needed to,I admire anyone that has the sheer determination to improve what they don’t like about them selves,and the reasons behind it are no ones business,do not shed a tear for people like that,they are so not worth it,Jealousy makes people very spiteful honey,and when they are spiteful they become ugly,you are beautiful don’t you dare let anyone put you down again.Deep down she probably wants to be the person you are,you should feel sorry for her.xxx

    kate66
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    I can’t believe some people’s best friends have ended friendships over it! You’re best friends are supposed to support you no matter what, I was v nervous telling my two closest friends, but they were great once they understood how I feel. Haven’t told anyone at work yet as I don’t want negative comments to ruin the high I am on finally making the decision to have it done. Don’t let anyone ruin this for you hun x

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    Faymous… I can’t believe your best friend hasn’t spoken to you!! This ridiculous!! My best friend isnt happy about me wanting my boobs done but she would never stop talking to me. She’s just concerned coz she’s 34DD that I would have more problems with my back etx … That’s awful xx

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    ive got a really good friend who ive known since school and she lives virtually on the same road as me, and were both going through the same, so luckily we both understand what eachother feels like when other people dont, most people think its one of those things like getting false eyelashes or something when really its to do with your confidence and its in your head about how much you hate them, etc, shes also on here called emz1991 . ive been in tears over the months how sometimes i feel people dont understand, but my surgerys on tuesday now and i cant wait, very nervous though xx

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