hi girls,
i hate doing this but i was friends with a ‘yellow’ but was checking my friends list and looked at profile and relised that yellow had only added friends no comments etc? but a lot of you have accepted? is it me just being daft? sorry yellow if you are genuine i deleted you then you re-added me?xx
Also had a request, but Im afraid haven’t accepted it as like you I am unsure xx
Perhaps yellow prefers to private message friends and does not post comments.
Yes, yellow is an oldie but she doesn’t post on here anymore x
I had a request also but did not accept as i had no private message first x
There has already been a thread similar to this which included Yellow. As Tina says, she may prefer to pm rather than participate in public discussions, or maybe she doesn’t have the time to be on the forum everyday.
It may be more appropriate to ignore requests if you are wary for any reason, rather than publicly post a comment about the person.
FFS. I dont care if i get flamed for this, this is really pissin me and alot of other members off!.
Look, if your unsure about a member then pm them dont start a thread about her just to bitch! If u dont wanna accept then dont, simple!
Yellow is an ‘oldie’…just because she dosnt post on here dosnt mean shes a perv or she should have derogitory threads made about her. 6 months ago there would never have been a thread like this on here
Some of us are new to all this though and have been a little scared when we read threads about people photos ending up on other sites and facebook. I’m sure no offence was meant to anyone.
Further to my above comment, please don’t be so naive to think that people who never comment or get involved are possibly imposters and the people who are on here everyday are genuine.
It is just as likely, if not more likely, that a person who is constantly on the forum, chatting, posting and forming friendships, could be an imposter.
So posting about someone you’ve never met, asking opinions about that person from people you’ve never met is a little pointless.
newbies add people all the time without commenting and when oldies do they get a thread about them, just ignore.
and some of us like yellow have been on here for ages lara. When newbies come on and send out mass requests without talking to anyone like alot do we dont start naming and shaming people, its awful.
It’s the same as any other forum/chat room/social networking site. If you don’t want to share your information and photos, then don’t. Only add people or friends that you know or set your personal info and photos to private.
This is common sense when using these sorts of sites.
OH another one!
Yellow is lovely she helped me loads before my op over pm!
Just because she doesnt post doesnt make.her some.sort of boob perving bloke with a mack and tash.
I post all the time, but i could actually be a perve grooming u all!
Doesnt matter if some one posts or not!
If u are all so scared and unsure about this ste, dont post photos! Simplesss
wow! bitchy im not a newbie been on here for quite a while now!! ill ask what i want to be safe but im actually leaving this bitchy forum fed up with it it is for everyone not just certain ‘oldies’!!! and it belongs to mya some of you think you own it!! anyway to the girls that were not rude enough to shout there mouth off thanks my account now closed thank god!!!xxxx
hahahahahhahaa Fairy love it
Simplesssssss
feel sorry for YELLOW xxx she is just being friendly! x
I don’t think I shouted my mouth off, I think I made valid points about using a forum such as this.
Asking questions on here about a person on here will not ensure your safety, so it seems kind of counterproductive.
I dnt think u did either hun xxx
“bitchy forum”…..comin from the girl that made this horrible thread lol.
i accepted her add, but ive been accepting all adds and then im going to filter through people i have and havent talked to before i put boobie pics, because when i first joined up i ddnt know the right way to go about things and i added people when i hadent talked to them (ive learnt now) xx
at the end off the day … were all in or have been in the same boat!!! we all want advice and want to give it !!
if you have a querie about someone then email them. dnt post it as a tread.
Cx
to be honest i dunno if id be overly bothered if a guy wanting boobs did add me (slightly off topic) lol like if a transgender person asked for advice i wudnt mind there still here wanting a boob job! lol thinking about it now i dunno why a guy wud come onto a cosmetic site to find pics of boobs, transform or other companys dont even have a forum (i dnt think) and only reason i found this forum was bcoz i booked for a consultation and was trying to look at everything on the site for info and found this…god send! x
Yet again, another post about poor yellow- She added me last night, and ive quite happily accepted.
Have you ladies not thought, why would a perv want to come on a site like this and see post operative breasts?? there are plenty of porn sites that are free that would accommodate their needs dont you think? Just saying?
This forum is getting really bad for women bitching- like ticky said earlier, if you are concerned you either declined the request or you send a message, rather than the public slating you’ve just done!! Perhaps the poor girl doesnt want to make posts, and so what, we are all on here for EXACTLY THE SAME REASON!
Good luck to yellow and i feel sorry for her when she has to read all this thread, but big hugs to her xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PS: thank you to everyone on the facebook group- (im emily) so much better atmosphere than on here xxxxxxxxxx
hey emily xxx im meeee ladyc aka CLAIRE
x x we loe our fb group !!!
I think this is all so sad. The thread did not start in a malicious way. She may hAve Been mistaken but she was seeking reassurance as are we all about one thing or another. It’s seems that summer is now feeling shunned and shamed. I don’t think anyone in this forum wants to hurt or offend anyone at all. Everyone I have spoken to has been lovely and kind. Yellow who is clearly genuine -added me too without pm ing and I added her but so many of you demand a pm prior to adding friends. No one here is mean so let’s all stick together and uphold the mya bond. Xxx
LOVE that should off said! bloody keyboard! grrrr
he he hey claire
xxx
haha hush im with you, but totally agree with tickys first comment, wish people wouldnt do these thread!!! xx
WOW someones dummy rattles and bottle have well and truely been thrown out the pram!!
I dont care if i sounded bitchy name and shame threads like this are becoming a joke!
do you think i like doing it?
i am sorry yellow i no its not nice to read this i would hate it too
i don’t wanna fall out with anyone but now i have thought about it i was a bit quick in putting that on here and i should have thought about it more 😳
so i am sorry but at the time thought i had caught a dodgy person which was not the case just looking out for everyone and its no excuse but iv’e had a really bad day!! iv’e deleted all my friends now and gonna start over
so those of you who forgive me please re-add me xxxxxx
everyone got upset purely because this happened a while ago and Yellow was the topic. like i said b4 were all here for the same thing.. BOOBIES!! if it happens again then pm the girl x dnt post a tread. it comes across to others as bitchy altho in ur eyes thats not what your wanting it to sound like (if u get me) just PM next time xx 
off course others are gonna get upset… they may know the girl and if it wee one off ur friends you’d prob be the same. x
Summer, I think the reason this has bothered some people is that there’s already been a couple of threads similar which have named people and questioned who they are etc. When the people in question finally came across these posts, they were obviously quite hurt and upset. So if you’re unsure about someone, just avoid them. Like in “real life”, lol.
The point I was making, and am still trying to make to everyone, is to stop assuming that quiet people are dodgy and equally stop assuming that friendly and chatty people aren’t. It doesn’t work like that on the internet – we don’t really know who anyone on here really is! Apart from any of us that have met of course.
i will learnt from my mistakes tried to pm yellow but cant find her xx
Im actualy a man my names Keith…and ticky let me take u to lunch lol x x
Ive added you summer7,xxx
Can’t get that friggin Coldplay song out of my head now x
Hahaha best post of all that coldplay one hahaha!!!!!!!
Keith can I go to dinner I’m 34 d now!!!!
Ticky you can come too!
Ok then just me and you ticky?
HUSH IT IS INDEED MISSUS
GET ur arse bak on fb and give us another Confession please hahahahahahaha xxx
hahahahha KEITH HOW U DOIN MAN
xxx
Maybe we should all remove are comments and if possible the the topic xxx
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